Looks like Deity is not for me quite yet. I think I'm going to jump back to Immortal until I can play it with comfort with tough leaders
Thank you all for the input; I think I just lack the experience of grand strategy I guess.
You should playing on deity if IMM is starting to be ezy for you.
I remember my firsty steps on deity was like WTH its 2 or 3 lvl above IMM, in 2-3 games AIs just crushed me,but in every game i notice something, i learned something and finally i won my 1st deity game with WvO.
Last days i noticed taht HBR is strongest tech for trades early on.
Going for like AH -> HBR is v strong play you can trade it for BW, writing, then IW Alpha sometimes Maths depends on AIs and allso depends how fast AIs gets Alpha.
Good if you have reason go for HBR like WE or potencial HAs.
But still safest way to win deity is 6 city Lib race and cuir/cav rush inn this case Aste is i think strongest play, and i dont think thats Aste is slowing you down for like 2 main reasons.
At the begining my lib race games was heavly depended on TGL ( 1 bulb PHI 1 bulb Edu + academy in capitol). So going for Aste >Lit>Music its something on my regular tech path.
And you can get allmoust all techs for Aste including Math in some cases.
But hard to advicing becouse every map is diferent, way to play is heavly depended on map and leader. Sometimes you can go for GLH or Mids or x-bow rush, or Engi > Cannons ... just practice.