divorce

[Prince_Imrahil]

Why have children, anyway? And should we have them if you don't feel a biological or emotional urge? If we don't, will we feel those urges later, and regret it? Does having kids make old age less painful? Does choosing not to have children mean we're selfish? Or are those people who choose to have children to fulfill them, or to ease loneliness, or to take care of them in old age, the really selfish ones? Points to ponder.

I've always pondered why people actively have kids when they detract from ones ability to freely enjoy childless life, its the only thing on the verge of ruining my whole people being absolutly self-interested idea.. right now I'm content that its because kids do provide happiness for those who prefer not to seek happiness in other matters. Plus they usually provide support to the old folks.