Do you guys really go through map after map until you find one that is just perfect? I always just go for the one I get given randomly. Does it really make that much difference? Is that why it took me so many attempts to get this? Because everyone else chooses the perfect map, no barbarians, and the ideal opponents?
note that i do respect mutineer, he's an amazingly skilled civ4 player and has taught me a lot. he even gave me advice just last night that will have saved my current gauntlet attempt, if it does end in a win (it ain't over). i however am not anywhere NEAR his level in ability or skill. he knows this and is kind and friendly to me anyway *giggle*.
i do regenerate maps, in both HoF games and in games i play just for fun. i know, the thought
shocks methos, but sometimes i do play games that i don't send to HoF

. for me, a game is more fun if it looks like i have a chance from the start, and since it is a game, my goal is to have fun, not be frustrated early on. i don't regenerate 80,000 times until i get ultimate perfection, but i definitely don't automatically take what i'm given the first time regardless of what it is. some people regard that as a form of cheating, i do not.
if you're playing HoF, follow HoF rules, in an SG go with the SG rules, etc. but IMO, in your own truly singleplayer games, do whatever you want, since fundamentally it is a game and the point of it is to have fun, and the definition of fun is very personal. if it's more fun, or more challenging (which is part of the fun for you) to not allow yourself certain options that i do allow myself, that's cool. as i said previously, i'm really really impressed with your win, harbourboy, regardless of the date. i could not have achieved it, with those opponents, maybe not even at settler level. you are for sure a better man than i am! then again, i'm a girl...
my personal history, i'm trying for QM because i used to be a totally major hardcore reloader. i mean the WORST, from way way back, before i ever even heard of civ, possibly before some of y'all were born. i wanted to break the habit, and i started to, and then found out about HoF, and was like oh cool, here's motivation to even more! they'll know if i did! and now i don't even miss it, i've become a much better player. and i want my QM box filled out just as a silly way to show myself that i don't reload any more. it certainly won't show that i'm one of the best players, i know that i'm not really. but i like that you can reach QM by competing only against yourself, and that's why i'm here. for me it's not about reflecting a normal game or about "OMG i want to be on the top 10 so everyone thinks i'm the goddess of high scores"
and the people here are way too cool. i have learned so much! seems nobody here is trying to hog the top 10 spots, they share so many tips and strategies. that is so generous and so fun for me and i just think it's completely 100% awesome. plus you guys make me laugh.