TheBladeRoden said:
Alright this acting indifferent thing is not working out for me for it only gets the same in return.
Okay, by saying that you have to act indifferent, the point is that you have to come up with the approach that does not signal to the girl that you are attracted to her (which in most cases is even before she is attracted to you).
Indifference means no special attention which translates to attraction on an obvious level.
You can't expect to treat her as you treat any other acquaintance and get somewhere.
So start with this: Be funny and be the life of the party. Be different from other people, and be energetic. After that is done, you have the power to say anything you want to her that would get her curious. Tease her and playfully find faults.
You might think that doing this signals attraction, but it is not true. The fact is that in her eyes, you have her in your attention because she may be clumsy, unorganized, or "not with it." Since you are the life of the party, it is obvious that you have a lot of people on your mind, and not just her. That gets her interested also.
Then she will try to prove you wrong, and this signals attraction on her part. When she gets physical with you (if she hits you with a smile on her face after you have said something), you are on the right track.
Then the next day, do not give her any attention. This gets her curious and inspires mystery. The day after that go on with your typical routine. In time you will establish comfort where you will have no problem getting her. It's a very fun process.
And yes, I believe you can be with any girl you want to be with. You just have to believe it. And I do.
