Hello all,
This is my first GOTM, I just finished the game and posted my .sav file and just wanted to share a little bit of my experience and maybe get some (much needed) advice from the guys here who really know their Civ. (trying to bone up for multiplayer

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My problem when playing Civ is I have a hard time coming up with clear cut goals for myself (like picking 1 particular victory condition and totally focusing on it) and I end up trying to do everything at once.
I'll use this GOTM to illustrate.
I started off the game by just focusing on pumping settlers and expanding (this is how I find myself starting every game no matter the circumstance). Also, since the Zulu are Expansionistic I made maybe 5 or 6 Scouts and went around grabbing all the goody huts I could. This helped take care of early tech and I kept science at 10% all through the early game and tried to pick techs to research that I didn't think the AI would research for trade purposes.
I met the Chinese first and then the Indians shortly thereafter. The Chinese had horrible jungle infested lands and that pretty much sealed their fate. After I had settled what I had in my mind as "my" territory and had a veteran Impi or 2 in each town (I normally pick a town or 2 and make barracks in them to supply defenders for my entire early empire and make culture improvements, settlers, and workers in all other towns), I started focusing on creating my army for attacking. I got Iron Working pretty quickly so that army mainly consisted of swordsman. I also made a few horseman with an eye towards upgrading to Knights when the time came so I wouldn't be caught flat footed militarily. Using a force of maybe 10-12 units I took out the Chinese before the Ancient Era ended. Luckily I managed to wipe them out entirely without triggering my Golden Age. The one thing I did differently in the Ancient Era than I normally do is that I didn't even try to build any early wonders. I'm not sure why, as I normally always go for the Pyramids, but I never seemed to have a town free in time to start it and after a certain point I figured there was no reason to start it because I knew the AI would have too much of a lead.
Next came the Middle Ages and lots more war. The Indians had grown fairly strong through the Ancient Era and had quite a bit of culture (as they always do), and they had a few cities that I felt would look nice in my cultural mass (you know how it is, you don't like seeing other colors in your blob on the mini map hehe). So I enlisted the help of the Japanese and Babylonians and together we took out the Indians. The war was fought entirely with Knights, Swordsman and Impis, and I ended up with all but a city or 2 of their holdings on the mainland and they were banished to the 3 city island to the SE of the main continent. I had triggered my Golden Age during this war and this allowed me to complete my first 2 wonders, Michelangelo's and J.S. Bach's. I was able to turn the luxuries that had made my Republic possible down to 0 and start to compete with the tech leader at the time (France) for getting new techs first.
After 20 turns or so of peace with the Indians the AI started declaring war on each other. The Japanese and Persians signed a military alliance against the Babylonians. The Babylonian lands bordered my newly conquered Indian territory, so I decided I had better get in on the action. I declared war on Babylon and took the majority of their western cities. Japan took a few Babylonian cities near it's border and Persia got their 3 or 4 easternmost cities and was the civ to wipe them out. India had also allied with the Babylonians during this lost cause and I took over their little 3 city island and they were vanquished. This war was still being fought with my old Knights and Swordsman.
After that there was a fairly long period of peace and territory consolidation that lasted up until the Industrial Age. After discovering Steam Power I realized that I had a city eligible to build Iron Works (only the 2nd game I've ever had that). I started Iron Works immediately and finished it just around the time I had researched the tech for Theory of Evolution (can't remember the name atm). I rush built a factory in the town and snagged Theory of Evolution there easily which I used to research up to Electronics and then popped Hoover Dam in a city I had been pre-building a palace in. When I discovered Steam Power I also went through and switched virtually every city to making a factory so when Hoover Dam completed it was almost like a 2nd Golden Age. Just as all this was happening Persia gets a wild hair up its ass and decides it wants to brawl. They were fairly strong, 3rd on the score list at the time and despite upgrading all of my Riflemen (which had been Musketmen, which had been Impis) to Infrantry as I had just recently discovered Replacement Parts my only offensive force was 5 Cavalry that had been Knights (that had been Horsemen) left over from my early wars. This didn't prove to be too much of a problem however as I enlisted the help of the Japanese and the French and set about making more Cavalry in my newly mega producing cities. The war with Persia ended up lasting all the way through to the beginning of the Modern Era but they were eventually vanquished, their last city being taken by the French. Again I ended up with the majority of their land and by this time the French had the East end of the continent and the Japanese had maybe 8 or 9 cities around their starting spot as the Persians had apparantly sent most of their offense in that direction during the war. By the time the war ended I had maybe 30 Tanks and a handful of Infrantry not assigned to defending cities as my fighting force (I normally just put 2 defenders in a city early on in the game and just upgrade them as I go and that's it for defense other than hotly contested border regions). I was also really starting to pull away in tech around this time as I had spent the entire war in Democracy and never mobilized. I also used (this is another thing I do in every game) the strategy of trying to get any tech that the AI doesn't have first and then selling it to them for mass gold per turn so as to hurt their own research pace and help mine.
After that we had more peace for a bit. I won the race to the UN using a pre-build but decided not to have a vote as that Victory method seems, for lack of a better word, gay.
I ended up winning by Domination in 1790AD. I had just finished killing off the Japanese the turn before (a 2 turn war that they declared when I got caught trying to plant a spy), and France and I were the only 2 civs left. They, obviously by virtue of the fact that I won by domination, didn't have much territory. I was 1 space ship part away from winning the Space Race. And I could have probably won by Diplomatic Victory since I first built the UN. If I used the tool that shows you how close you are to Domination I'm sure I could have won by Conquest too by razing enemy cities. The only Victory Condition that would have been difficult to attain outside the next 15 turns or so was Cultural. Although I had the strongest culture for the entire game according to the histograph I didn't have the Pyramids or Great Library, one of which almost seems to be a pre-requisite for a Cultural Victory.
If you read this far, I thank you. If you're not cursing me out for being a long-winded jackass, I thank you even more. The point of this little diatribe is that I need advice on how to play better. You see, despite my win my score was only 3478. A score in 3-4k range is about average for me on Monarch. (I normally play Monarch or Emperor). What can I do to raise my score? I feel like I'm in a rut where I play the game the same way everytime. I base all my decisions in game based on what I feel like is most advantageous at the time, but it always ends up coming out pretty much the same.
Other tidbits about my play style:
1. I'm a complete perfectionist. I try and space out my cities (I think people are calling it OCS?) to have no more than 1-2 tiles of overlap if any at all.
2. I enjoy going to war but I almost always end up waiting until Infrantry and Tanks to do my major warring because before that there's too many city improvements to build and I find myself only making the bare essential military.
3. My typical build order in a city is
-Temple
-Courthouse
-Library
-Marketplace
-Cathedral
-Aqueduct
-Colosseum
-University
-Bank
-Hospital
etc.....
That's the basics of it. Of course some towns get early barracks, harbors, etc and not every town gets Aqueducts. Also before Cathedrals I do Colosseums early and normally try to get them in my core cities before going to Republic.
Thanks for any and all suggestions.