Sisiutil
All Leader Challenger
There's a link in my sig to my Beginners' Guide. Check it out. Sounds like it's just what the doctor ordered. 

I have a question though, in my capitol I have a pissed off citizen. I want to change him, kill him, do something to make it better. How do I do this?
A cautionary corollary: Archers only beat Axemen if they're fortified on good defensive terrain and/or within a city, and even then it's not a guarantee. And Chariots have indeed been the counters to Axemen since Warlords came out, but only when attacking.Archers.
Spearmen beat chariots and horse archers.
Axemen beat warriors, spearmen and swordsmen.
Archers and chariots beat axemen.
Swordsmen beat archers.
In a single player game, you are unlikely to be rushed by War Chariots or Immortals. (Barbarians never show up in chariots.) So don't bother with many spearmen. Instead build a mix of axemen and archers. You still might want a spearmen or two in case an AI decides to pillage your stuff, but in general I never use them.
A cautionary corollary: Archers only beat Axemen if they're fortified on good defensive terrain and/or within a city, and even then it's not a guarantee. And Chariots have indeed been the counters to Axemen since Warlords came out, but only when attacking.
Had to start over. Axeman killed my city which was fortified with one archer and one spearman. That was one bad BMF
Was it barbarians or another civ? With barbarians you can usually just fortify an archer on the outskirts of your territory on a forested hill and they will stupidly attack you.