Reagan was divorced and he was a great president. Your point?
You're missing it; that's an after-the-fact realisation.
An adulterous and drug-snorting hypocrite can make a great preacher too. He can read his bible and tell people what they want to hear, enough to pour the money in and get lots of people speaking in tongues.
Of course, that's an 'after the fact' analysis. Before we vote someone into power, we analyse them according to reasonable criteria. We can be as tolerant as we want, but eventually we'll have to use some judgement to make a decision.
I
personally consider a wedding vow to be very important. Unlike most other vows, the wedding vow promises to be permanent and is (I assume) made with honest intentions. Unlike many forced vows, I expect a person making a wedding vow to
mean it when they say it. (Compare that to something like filling out an
affidavit; you don't know if the person
means to be honest, merely that the person does not intend to be caught on
perjury(links are for our audience)).
If a person cannot keep a vow that they entered into willingly, publically and (putatively) meant it wholeheartedly, then why should we trust him in a position where the urge to abuse the power is so great? As well, you can hardly say that the relationship between the President and his country won't eventually go a little sour; we want to know how a person treats an oath under those circumstances.
Normally (like with that affidavit example) we can expect oversight and scrutiny to keep a man honest, I have no problem with people who're divorced. However, it seems that the Republican Congress has passed legislation to make such scrutiny much, much harder (the controversial Patriot Act, for example). Since you can't rely on scrutiny, you have to rely on the resume of vow-keeping. I guess you can also factor in youth too, because that's more than fair.
I expected more tolerance and understanding from the tolerant left.
Expect all you want from such an organisation, I am not a representative of the 'tolerant left' - you'll find very little 'leftist' about my opinions. I am not a two dimensional windmill you can tilt at and blame for you woes. Neither is the world
In addition, I have strong respect for long-term thinking and attempting to understand long-term consequences. This might separate me out from many people on my opinions of divorce. While I'm an atheist, I believe that I can form an opinion of people based on their treatment of vows