Is it more fun to be the wife or the mistress?

[Golden Touch]

This works both ways... is it more fun to be the wife or the mistress/the husband or the bit on the side?
Justifications please!
I cant help but think the mistress gets a better position. All the sex, gifts and fancy nights out and none of the cooking,cleaning and argueing that living together fulltime can bring!

 

[El_Machinae]

I daren't take a mistress; my wife would probably steal her

 

[Abaddon]

Which would you rather be?

 

[Golden Touch]

Which would you rather be?

denfinately your longtime mistress. God bless the woman stupid enough to agree to be your wife

 

[ComradeDavo]

Depends on who the husband/other wife is.

 

[skadistic]

My little cousin would tell you being the mistres is much more fun.

 

[Abaddon]

why your little cousin?

 

[PrinceOfLeigh]

My little cousin would tell you being the mistres is much more fun.

Walking right into a hurricane of 'cousin jokes' there.

 

[MamboJoel]

I cant help but think the mistress gets a better position. All the sex, gifts and fancy nights out and none of the cooking,cleaning and argueing that living together fulltime can bring!

Who said women didn't like arguing ?

 

[Atlas14]

I am not sure as I have never been a woman before. But if I had to imagine I were one, I would rather be the mistress if the person I loved/liked was going to have one at all.

 

[Cheezy the Wiz]

I'd rather be the wife, because I would want no part in infidelity.

 

[Masquerouge]

Pffff. You assume that a married couple leads a miserable life. That's not true. You can have sex, gifts and fancy nights out with your wife, and no cooking , cleaning, or arguing.

 

[Ingvina Freyr]

I'd rather be the wife, because I would want no part in infidelity.

You Sir, are wise beyond your years! (Occasionally)

 

[Brighteye]

It'll depend on how people think of the mistress. If she's the new love because a chap's become bored with his wife, then almost everyone would rather be her.

If she's just a bit on the side, only really valued for sex and a good time, and the chap still by far prefers his wife and loves her dearly then maybe the results will be more even.

 

[skadistic]

why your little cousin?

Shes humping a married man and loving every minute of it. From what I gather by talking to her a mistress get hooked up with the gifts and the thrills of "being the other woman" or getting caught are alluring.

(22 isn't exactly little but its its a habit)

Walking right into a hurricane of 'cousin jokes' there.

No worries..........I'm adopted !!!

 

[Cheezy the Wiz]

You Sir, are wise beyond your years! (Occasionally)

Thanks.

I don't believe in infidelity, because I am not a liar. An atmosphere of truth breeds undeniable trust, and my word is more important to me than a little temorary happiness that could be derived from a extra-marital relationship.

 

[Kan' Sharuminar]

I'd rather be the wife, because I would want no part in infidelity.

I'd rather be the husband (tis in the OP)

But yes, quite agree with you

 

[blackheart]

No worries..........I'm adopted !!!

So that's what lurks in your mind

 

[Elrohir]

@Thread Title:
I wouldn't know.

I daren't take a mistress; my wife would probably steal her

What, your wife swings both ways?

 

[Perfection]

Wife, but only on the condition that I get to run for president in 2008.