thecaesar
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@ lymond: Actually, protective does not suck, if you're in a defensive war. Then it's extremely helpful.
@ dr. turkleton: Neglecting military until rifles?!?! No way! I would start building a military in the longbow/mace/knight era, at LEAST.
And also, I would choose certain people to have good diplo relations with. It's easy if you have the same religion. Otherwise, just pick maybe two people to be friends with -- not too far away, so they can help you war, but not too close, or close borders and need for expansion will ruin your relationship. These people you should give almost whatever they demand; just think of it like, "If I give them this, they will be more likely to and more able to help me!" Of course, for me, massive world wars involving most civs in the game ensue, and my side usually wins
But as for "playing the map", as lymond put it, it's 90% practice and 10% help. So aside from the occasional tip, I think you just need to get familiar with the game and all the leaders (especially the latter for diplomacy reasons)
@ dr. turkleton: Neglecting military until rifles?!?! No way! I would start building a military in the longbow/mace/knight era, at LEAST.
And also, I would choose certain people to have good diplo relations with. It's easy if you have the same religion. Otherwise, just pick maybe two people to be friends with -- not too far away, so they can help you war, but not too close, or close borders and need for expansion will ruin your relationship. These people you should give almost whatever they demand; just think of it like, "If I give them this, they will be more likely to and more able to help me!" Of course, for me, massive world wars involving most civs in the game ensue, and my side usually wins

But as for "playing the map", as lymond put it, it's 90% practice and 10% help. So aside from the occasional tip, I think you just need to get familiar with the game and all the leaders (especially the latter for diplomacy reasons)