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I think we must reflect about some serious considerations.
All you agree that the multiplayer mode is a vastly superior experience than single player mode. It is incomparable to challenge the human intelligence and the AI. The first one is infinitely superior and unpredictable.
Said that, we can reflect about the multiplayer mode options:
LAN Games
Internet Games
Direct IP Connection Games
Hot Seat Games
Play by Email Games (PBEM)
Among them all, I think the PBEM is the multiplayer option that is closest of the immersion on the civilization spirit. You can play with players around the world. Each of them can play in their best time. We have time to think and plane etc. I like to play as if I would be playing chess, making notes, naming the units and the geographical elements (rivers, mountains, gulfs, seas etc.).
There is space for diplomacy and interaction, and you must control your anxiety and wait your turn come again.
Well, let’s reflect about the most important consideration. I think the most number of options should be available when we start the game. The Bug, is not so compatible with pbem.
I am playing a multiplayer game with the older version of A New Dawn (http://forums.civfanatics.com/threads/a-new-dawn-on-earth-and-the-space-adventure-ii.548102/) and it is was not easy to set the options to the game. When I set the options on Bug menus, it can be changed by the next players on their respective turns, that is, the Bug don't fix the options and it is possible that each player have your own options, different from other ones.
The ideal solution would be we could set the options at the beginning, when we started the game.
Look at my advices in the multiplayer section of the forum: it's meant to avoid OOS issues but also to avoid cheating (because having different options under BUG menu is cheating). You should all share the same XML, Config, Python and UserSettings folder, which should be pre-set by the first player before the game begins. Then you play with Lock Modified Assets; it looks like almost nobody is using that option but if I'm not mistaken it prevents the game from being loaded if you do ANY change to mod files. So no way to cheat by changing options or anything. True, you can't update the mod either while the game lasts, but I think it's a good solution nonetheless.