Talk about easy targets, nobody is telling you what you believe. But if you dont believe in God but aint sure, you're not an atheist. Atheists are sure just as Fundies are sure...
Well let's suppose the dictionaries are wrong, and you are right - what am I then?
I can't be an agnostic, because an agnostic is someone who claims God's existence can't be known.
I don't go around telling Christians that they aren't Christians unless they believe in 7 day creationism. Why the obsession in telling what atheists are allowed to call themselves as?
Because atheism rejects the notion of God?
I reject belief in God. I also don't know if God exists.
Question: Do you believe in pixies?
Thats a contradiction in terms, one doesn't know and the other does know.
Know what? I don't know anything about God, I don't believe in him!
And in that context disbelief is a denial, the second definition re-enforces the first.
So why do all these dictionaries repeat the definition twice with different words? (And later on, I see you retreat to "Obviously a dis-belief precedes the denial but it aint atheism until it becomes a denial." - so all the dictionaries listing "disbelief" are wrong then?)
There are three definitions of atheism - see
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Atheism (which has sources for all the definitions). Then read that talk pages and the archives where this has been debated over and over, by people who want to redefine atheism to only mean positive belief in no Gods.
The way you're reading dis-belief it would include all those people who dont believe but aint sure.
Bingo! Why do you want to discount them? By your system, we would have no word for them. When we count people who don't believe in ghosts, unicorns or pixies, we wouldn't think of ignoring everyone who also say that they don't know for certain.
We wouldn't label someone as a fundamentalist if they said they didn't believe in invisible flying monkeys, just because they didn't qualify it with "But I don't disbelieve either, and I don't know, and I aint sure", and then disassociate themselves from the other people who didn't believe!
Well, why not? You've re-defined atheism to include agnostics...not me...
Not all agnostics. And I haven't re-defined - I acknowledge that there are several definitions of atheism.
Is that your answer to the question: is there a prime mover?
If you say "Is there", I would answer "I don't know". If you asked if I believed, I would say "No".
Which makes me an agnostic and an atheist, but apparentely I can't be both.
So getting to the point - "nobody is telling you what you believe" - right, so there's no point getting stuck in a word definitions debate. The point is, you asked a question, self-identified atheists then responded. There's no point telling us we can't be atheists - we've explained what we believe.
When you say things like "That makes atheism untenable", that only applies to some people. Maybe some of those atheists will be here to argue with you - but if not, then bad luck.