"Allan2, I was referring to the cringing fear most people like
Yourself have when faced with a moral dilemma."
Concern that I will do the right thing, not hurt people unnecessarily, etc. I don't call that fear, I call it WANTING to do the right thing. I hope you have similar concerns, whether you are religious or not.
I've mentioned before that I was not religious myself, but MANY people are helped by it. You see, I am capable of looking outside my own experiences and accepting that just because people do things different from me (like, belong to a church), doesn't mean their experience is less valid or less of a good thing.
You, however, read my simple post that basically stated, "religion isn't ALL bad, ALL black without any white," which really IS reasonable, and what do YOU do? You jump to conclusions. Including the conclusions you've made about me (most inaccurately) below. Thing is, I think you're probably incapable of seeing how foolish you look by making these rash judgments about me, my character and experience. Anger (and you seem to have a LOT of anger about religion--so did I once, it's like deja vu) often does cloud one's perceptions of things around them.
I suggest you start again by going back over my post here--ALL of it.
"Perhaps you are blinded by what you see as your high-minded
Mission to prove religion is beyond all criticism."
I NEVER said it was beyond all criticism. I said it wasn't black-and-white. I'll even quote from that part of my post that you couldn't read, apparently: "religion can be used for good or evil." Now, how does that compute with religion being beyond all criticism? Actually NOTHING is beyond all criticism, including you, so brace yourself because you have some coming to you now.
"If so, your mission is doomed on the launch pad."
I have no mission. You obviously do however--you speak the type of rhetoric of a "man with a mission." Like any fanatic reactionary, you throw the baby out with the bath water and call it ALL bad. Ironic that SOME of the very religious people you criticize do the same thing.
If I didn't know better, I'd guess you were a fundamentalist--same pattern of thinking.... (And I've seen some of this kind of thing in a few of your other posts too.)
"It is sad to see someone who is so chained by his own perception
That he is scared to move through fear of some imagined divine
Retribution or moral decay."
I don't fear "divine retribution." I DO fear moral decay however. I fear people being less inhibited to do harm to others, to be dishonest to others. I also would like to see people being more compassionate to others. Wouldn't you? If religion helps some people be better people in these ways (and for a lot of ordinary people, it does), that is fine with me.
"In a way I pity the kind of person you are."
Don't throw your "pity" at me! You don't have the faintest idea what I'm like, and your post proves it.
You may not realize it, but you are in absolutely NO position to be condescending to me. Nor am I to you.
"But also you could free yourself from oppression."
I am quite free already. Including free from irrational anger. Even now, while reading your condescending tripe.... (i'm being STERN, not angry
)
"Y'see, religion breeds on weakness and fear."
In some cases, it has and does. In others' experiences, it has not. Do you speak for EVERYONE who is into religion?
"I know you have fear, deep down."
Everyone has SOME fear. Within proper boundaries, it is a vital survival mechanism. So?
So you no ONE thing about me (although it is likely not like you thought). You're now 1 for 99
"Most people do,"
Everyone but the simplest FOOL has fear of something. Like me, I have fear of crashing my car, eating poison, smashing my head on pavement, etc. These fears help me avoid careless actions or mistakes that will likely or certainly result in such consequences.
Now I don't avoid morally bad things out of fear of hell, but out of not wanting to hurt people, not wanting to have the reputation of hurting people, and because I think the world would be better if people didn't do each other wrong so much. I don't NEED punishment to steer me away from wrong, as I have other internal deterrences. However, SOME people (I hate repeating myself, so sorry other readers, but Curt obviously didn't get it the first time) are primarily motivated by physical rewards and punishments. So if religion helps THESE people not to do bad things to each other (and indeed it does), I'm all for it doing THAT.
I certainly DO object to people twisting religion to compel people to do bad things to each other. Like I said, religion can be used for good AND for evil (as can science or just about anything). I applaud when it is used for good (as most ordinary, average, people-who-don't-make-the-news-or-history types use it in their everyday lives), and deplore it when it is used for evil.
Difference between you and me, is that I see both uses being used--you just see the evil.
"A religious person may have the outward image of confidence,
But I suspect under the surface lurks, self doubt, depression and
A lack of true purpose and belonging."
All it is, for most people, is a way to explain the intangibles in life and find some sort of peace with things. You may have done that in a different way. So what? Are you better?
Tell me, o guru, what IS the RIGHT and BEST way to find peace and "true purpose and belonging"? Are all those who don't do what YOU did just deluding themselves?
"Even though I am what religious types would ignorantly regard a
heathen, I have none of these personality flaws, and have a
successful life, I have never been held back by this ludicrous
moral code, or pitiful Fear of some non-existent god."
I assume you have some moral code though. Or at least I hope you do. It doesn't matter whether it came from religion, or from your own thinking. For example, would you cheat someone out of their money even if you never would get caught? Kill someone under the same circumstances?
"Such balderdash was programmed into you as a child, perhaps an act of arrested development by your parents?
I will not attempt to profile, as only you know your mind."
You've already attempted to profile and failed. Good that you see that now, and have learned your lesson!
"Nonetheless, I can see you are an intelligent man, Allan2,
And I have high regard for your well-crafted words."
Now comes the flattery part of your post, to try and soften everything else
. If you are sincere, then thanks for the sincere complement. But that doesn't negate your earlier condescension.
You're not bad yourself, when you don't condesend or fancy yourself better or more enlightened than others here. There's a difference between speaking your mind bluntly (a trait you seem to value, as do I), and taking a haughty tone like that. People WILL slap you down for the latter. I would expect them to do the same with me too.
I've been particularly harsh here, because I think you need to know exactly how blind your APPARENT anger (note I don't psychoanalyze WITH CERTAINTY here, unlike some folks I know) at religion has made you to my careful arguments. You resorted to presume to psychoanalyze me without even regarding what I said.
Maybe I'm psychoanalyzing you wrongly by calling you angry, and if so my bad too. But your tone comes across that way.
My whole argument, if you had read the post, was that religion is not ALL black like you say it is--nothing more than that. But you insist it is all black. I contend it is gray. I never EVER said it was white.
"It's a pity your development as an individual is hamstrung by
Your deep-rooted guilt and religious entrapment."
How many times do I have to say it? I am not myself religious. I'd say YOU'RE trapped in your blind misconceptions. I'm not religious (not that I'd be "ashamed" of being so before people like you, or anyone), and yet I can defend it. If I defend gays, does that mean I'm gay too?
I'm actually quite a complex human being--don't even TRY to figure me out
.... Just concentrate on the arguments, thank you. You'll get far more mileage that way....
"You could achieve so much more without such emotional baggage.
"I hope one day you can break free and find real confidence."
You're funny....
"Respect."
Condescension isn't respect, and it will not gain you any either. At least not from me.
So, respect must be earned. Start by taking a deep breath, clearing all the bitterness, and opening your mind. Now, read the post you responded to IN PART again, and this time DISCUSS it, don't REACT. Especially do not react based on your preconceived notions of what kind of person I am (you see where THAT got you), but DISCUSS what the post actually SAYS. That is what we do here.
Thank you.