While I agree that many/most households, the women do the shopping/laundry, etc., it seems in these adverts like it is a given that the "little woman" is always doing the housework. I know plenty of men who regularly do housework on a shared basis with their partners. Why, in a commercial, does it always have to be the woman in the kitchen with the mop? Why can't a man be shown scrubbing the toilet? Or the bathtub? Is it unmanly, or something? For that matter, why can't a woman be shown changing the oil or spark plugs on her car? I do it (because I got sick of being ripped off, and it doesn't make me any less feminine.) It's the assumed gender role that we object to. The portrayal of a woman enslaved in the house is offensive, that's all.
As for the stripperific clothing, you answered that one yourself. Yes it's sexist but:
You've made your own point, and I agree with it. The stripperific adverts are aimed at young males with (dubiously) disposable income. The household ads are the same. They're aimed at a demographic. I understand that, but if we're going to get all up in arms about the sexism here, we need to realize that other forms of sexism exist elsewhere, and they are just as offensive.
I'm not saying that I think I have the answer. I just have a different viewpoint. As a woman, the domestic adverts bother me more than the stripperific ones do. As a psychologist, the sexy ads here don't bother me. They're appealing to the natural human sexual response in young men (and gay women) and they are probably quite successful, which is why there are so many of these games about. They also may not bother me because I'm gay, I don't know, but it does bother me to think of myself enslaved in a house, expected to look after it. The cult of domesticity died with the Antebellum South, or at least the 1900's. Women are more than housekeepers and domestic workers in today's age, all I'm asking for is a little equality in the presentation.
Do you get the distinction?