So... winining = fun?
For me, playing = fun. I just like playing the game. When I get stomped, I accept it and retire, then move on and fire up another one. I'll admit, I certainly don't continue the game and keep playing until another civ achieves victory - I forfeit and retire when I know I've most certainly lost.
So perhaps I should rephrase my equation, lol. (playing towards a victory) = fun.
If winning is the only fun part about it, what about all that time you spend working your way towards that win - is that considered "work"?! What about the games you lose? That total time investment is then not considered fun? What is it then?
I enjoy the games that I wind up losing and retiring from just as much as I do the games I wind up winning.
Also, I think that if you're winning most games, you're playing at a difficulty that isn't challenging enough (there's numerous other civs playing on your map I'm sure). I definitely lose more than I win. It makes your victories much more sweeter.
You don't need to know every little intricacy and detail in order to play the game. Just play it (if you enjoy it) at the correct difficulty and the details will be learned gradually as you play. I loved those "eureka" moments when I finally understood something more clearly - seeing the big picture.
And also... don't concern yourself with what others are playing at. Just do your own thing and make your own rules and enjoy it. If you're playing at Settler, who cares... just have fun. You WILL eventually move up in difficulty over time.
I feel it makes no difference what others say they play at, because you don't know how they manipulate the map or their rules. They could be playing at a different game speed, different sized map, overpopulated or underpopulated with civs, aggressive AI, no tech brokering, etc. etc. There's so many variables that affect the game that you'd have to be playing the same EXACT game in order to compete for bragging rights and compare.
But hey, whatever... If you don't like the game, that's fine, it doesn't affect me. I also don't know why I was lured into even posting into this thread (Maybe I just wanted to stick up for my game) or why the original poster created it (Perhaps you're hoping others can talk you into giving it a chance again?).
In my opinion, Civilization is the greatest series of computer games ever created, and Civ 4 is the greatest of all the civs thus far. It also allows me to play at my own pace and schedule, and allows me to RELAX after a days work. Those FPS and RTS games make me feel hyper and tense. Turn-based, single-player, strategy for the WIN!
