To Kiss Or Not To Kiss

KnightOfNi Yes I am a Jehovah's Witness.
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SunTzu 144,000 is found twice in the Bible, in the book of Revelation. If you are interested they are found at Revelation chapter 14, verse 1. And Revelation 9 and verse 4. Here's a little research for you all to do... read psalms 83 and verse 18. Now this scripture is in almost all the Bibles not just ours.

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Silence Fills the Nothingness.

Even though stuff happens that we don't plan, be a man... use you hand.

I'm in love and it's my job to make other people jealous.
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Well if only 144,00 people get to go to heaven I might as well stop worrying about it.
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I'm a pretty good person. HOWEVER there are many people that do better things than me: people that do volunteer work, feed the hungry and poor, comfort the sick, dedicate their time to helping orphans etc. etc.

I'm not going to be one of the chosen so there's no point worrying about it. Might as well live my life the way i want to and the hell with a 2000 year old book.
 
<u>My recommendation:</u> I wouldn't worry too much about getting "chosen" or not. I do believe in an energy or a "force" we could call God (for the sake of calling it something), but I don't buy any of the hell and damnation stuff. I believe all that was made up by man to keep us in line, just like the stories of the Greek gods. The people of that time thought they were true, too.

I believe whatever created us loves all of us, no matter what we do, for we are Its creations and a part of It. An example to make this more real & accessible: (assuming none of us are insane) none of us would kill our own children or send them (or allow them to be sent, if we can help it) into some everlasting torment no matter what they did to us or anyone else. This becomes much, MUCH clearer once you actually have your own kids. If you don't have kids and you think you wouldn't care what happen to them once they reached a certain level of "badness", you will do a 180 degree turn the first moment you see and touch your own ... I promise you that. You simply love them no matter what, and the fact that you had something to do with creating them and helping them when they were helpless makes a HUGE difference.

But why would we believe it would be any different with God to His children/ creations? ... unless we assume God is insane <IMG SRC="http://forums.civfanatics.com/ubb/wink.gif" border=0> ... What I find most illogical is how we could condemn a woman who kills her own children, yet at the same time we accept a God who would kill or torture (or allow to be tortured) His own children, that is us, if we did something He didn't like or agree with. If we were consistent, wouldn't we either accept or reject both? If we're repulsed by a woman who kills her own children, why aren't we repulsed by the idea of a God who would do something similar, and so seek an idea of God that makes more sense?

I also think a lot of us unconsciously think we started in this body and are just trying to get to Heaven. So we think we're humans trying to have a spiritual experience or trying to get to a spiritual place. But where were we before birth on Earth? I believe we are spirit first and have always been such. And that we entered bodies to have a human experience, instead of the other way around. And I feel that when we die, we will be accepted back into the spiritual plane (call it Heaven if you want) just as we were when we (that is, our souls) came here to have a bodily experience. Another way to see it is that we have chosen to play a grand virtual reality role-playing game that seems truly real (otherwise we wouldn't take it very seriously and it wouldn't have the same effect). And when our character dies, we are out of the game and we realize who we really are and where we really come from, and that it is not a tragedy at all ... just that our time in that game as that character was over and we can choose to re-enter as another character if so desired ... for the sake of the experience ... to play the game. (and to have fun doing it!)

SunTzu: I think your concerns about the church as an organization are justified. If your heart/conscience doesn't feel/know something to be true for you, I wouldn't buy into it. And even though you and I disagree a lot, I feel you are assured a wonderful time in Heaven. Don't worry about it. No use wasting time worrying about it when you could be having a great life until then. On the Bible, though many humans call it sacred, it was still written by humans (who never could have seen dinosaurs ... good point). In fact, it was revised many times over by later humans. (You should study the origins and development of the Bible sometime, but not from a book/class sponsored by a religious organization of any kind.) And I don't throw the Bible out with the bathwater .. it says some wonderful things ... on the other hand, it also says some pretty horrible things ... so I'd be discriminating about it, as well as about any other "sacred writing". As Obi-Wan says, "trust your feelings". Sure, that came from Star Wars, but that doesn't mean there's not deep truth in that statement. We each "know" when what is said is truly "right" for us or not, as long as we can get the reactive, superficial feelings out of the way. I also bring it up as an example that deep truths can come from anywhere, not just the Bible. Another way to say this is, "Do you trust a 2000 year old, revised record of what some humans said God said, over what God may be telling you directly right here & now?"

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Originally posted by RedWolf:
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I'm a pretty good person. HOWEVER there are many people that do better things than me: people that do volunteer work, feed the hungry and poor, comfort the sick, dedicate their time to helping orphans etc. etc.

I'm not going to be one of the chosen so there's no point worrying about it. Might as well live my life the way i want to and the hell with a 2000 year old book.

Red, there is something nearly as good as getting to rule in Heaven, it's called serving on earth. So you and most of humanity aren't going to Heaven. YOu can still enjoy eternal life in a disease and age-free body on an earth that looks like the garden of Eden everywhere you look. I'll admit, it's probably not quite up there with living in the Eternal City, but I hardly think it is going to suck either.

You sound like someone who refuses the second place prize in the sweepstakes because it is only $500,000, when the winner got $50,000,000. Kind of petulant, when you stop and think about it.
 
FL2 are you a jehovah's Witness as well? In your last post it sounds like you are... No other organized religion (I can think of) teaches that.

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Silence Fills the Nothingness.

Even though stuff happens that we don't plan, be a man... use you hand.

I'm in love and it's my job to make other people jealous.
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This is my main schism with organized religion; the fact that you must deny yourself now to be rewarded hereafter. This life here and now is real, any hereafter is conjecture - therefore I will take my chances with the now, at least i got something for sure.

If I go to hell (or don't go to heaven) for pre-marital sex, then so be it. At least I had some fun in the precious little time this world offers, instead of wracking myself in denial and guilt.
 
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Yes, but certainly not a very good example of one. I think I may be getting better though, stronger that is.
 
Originally posted by Magnus:
This is my main schism with organized religion; the fact that you must deny yourself now to be rewarded hereafter. This life here and now is real, any hereafter is conjecture - therefore I will take my chances with the now, at least i got something for sure.

If I go to hell (or don't go to heaven) for pre-marital sex, then so be it. At least I had some fun in the precious little time this world offers, instead of wracking myself in denial and guilt.

You have that right Magnus. But I pity you for what you are cheating yourself out of.


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Well, I'll take my chances with the hereafter, rather than a few hours at a time of sweating, heaving and moaning- and that's just when the bill comes at dinner, even before you've got em in bed
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Seeing that I can't get any anyway, I can live with my decision. It is like an image out of "A Pilgrim's Progress", one of my favourite tracts.

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Spiff, I am totally with you on the analogy of God as parent. On that thought, though, I once heard Hell described as God's last Grace for those who would not come to Him. A parent may unconditionally love their child, and completely accept them no matter what horrible thing they may do, but that is no guarantee the child will love the parent back or want to be in close relationship with them. If a soul wants no contact with the God of the Universe, what is to become of him/her? Hell may not be something God has created to punish those who do not believe, but simply the natural state of chaos of those who will not come to Him. In a sense, we create our own Hell by running away from God. As a child who runs away from home will (likely) meet chaos and deprivation.

BTW, the Bible actually speaks very little about Hell, and not really that much about Heaven. It is quite concerned with the "here and now" of this physical life.

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OMG! You guys are here taking about having sex with your girlfriends and getting married! I'M 15 YEARS OF AGE! I could have sex if I wanted to, I suppose. But I cant begin to imagine this stuff yet! I feel sort of overwhemled here. AHHHHH!
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Leowind I must say that you are slightly wrong on your view of the Bible... God is concerned with our future, not just the here and now. When Adam sinned in the Garden of Eden, God planned an escape from sin and death that Adam's sin brought about. In Genesis 3:15, This promised 'seed' was Jesus, his died for all mankind so that in the future we can be saved.
Now as to the topic of Hell, you're right, the Bible does mention Hell, but it is referring to the state of death, not fiery torment... A couple scriptures to compare, if I may. Psalms 9:17- says "Wicked people will turn back to Sheol [Hell], even all the nations forgetting God." O.k so that says that there is a Hell for the wicked right, well if we look at Job 14:13 we can see differently "O that in Sheol [Hell] you would conceal me, that you would keep me secret until your anger turns back, that you would set a time limit for me and remember me!" Now Job was a very faithful man Job 1:1 says he was blameless and upright... Now if he was as Job 1:1 says, why would God send him to Hell? Hell as is referred to in the Bible is mearly a resting place for the dead, in fact in Ecclesiastes 9:5 it says that "for the living are conscious that they will die; but as for the dead, they are conscious of nothing at all..." The Bible does not contradict itself, because God directed it's writings. I hope this helps you to see that there is no place of torment for those who do bad, they just die, plain and simple.

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Silence Fills the Nothingness......NERRRR!

Even though stuff happens that we don't plan, be a man... use you hand.

I'm in love and it's my job to make other people jealous.
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Brad, I did not say the Bible was not concerned about the future, heaven, or hell, just that those subjects are treated far less frequently then would seem to merit our sometimes obsession with them. Especially the gospels, the stories about what Jesus did and said, are more concerned about how to live life then worrying about an afterlife. Even when Jesus did address the future and the afterlife, his language and meaning are at times not entirely clear (to be fair, some of this parables are such as well). My own current understanding is that the afterlife is so very different from what we could even possibly imagine, that it's hardly worth worrying about. Even the best descriptions from the Revelation could not even possibly come vaguely close. God saves my by His Grace, not by any works of mine, and I try best I can to follow Him, and that's about as far as I go worrying about the afterlife.
As for quoting scriptures, I can pull bits and pieces from various parts of the Bible and prove almost any viewpoint I want. The Psalms are poetry, and as such, are given to extremes of language, poetic licence, if you will. That is not to say they are false, just overblown at times. Hence, I am always very wary of any doctrine that has verses from the Psalms as its basis. The book of Job presents similar problems in terms of it's intent and how to understand it. Much of it is actually a poetic form, as well, although different than the Psalms. The main difficulty with Job is whether to understand it literally or as allegory (if I'm using the correct word), much like C.S. Lewis's "Chronicles of Narnia" or "Screwtape Letters" are not meant to be taken literally, but still contain much truth as allegory. We don't believe there is a magic kingdom called Narnia with a talking lion walking around in it, but what the lion Aslan does and says and what happens in Narnia we find parallels with in our (real) world, and find truth there. Personally, I see Job this way, rather than a literal historical book. God-inspired, containing His truth, but allegorical, not literal. This makes it difficult to isolate scriptures from Job, as well, as the overall context is far more meaningful than any individual sentence. I know you probably disagree, but hope I've explained my POV a little better
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(I know I didn't respond to all your scipture quotes, just didn't want to write a book
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FL2
I didn't say I had absolute knowledge, I said I knew the truth of right and wrong. Anyone can share that knowledge.
I'm glad to hear you clear up your view on this. To be honest, many of your earlier posts (especially in some other topics) came across like you were claiming absolute knowledge, at least about the subject at hand. Personally, if you are basing your knowledge of right and wrong on what your conscience tells you, then even there you're on shaky ground. Yes we all have a conscience, and yes there is right and wrong, good and evil, but our conscience can be affected by many different factors, some even outside our knowing, that prevent it from working perfectly within us (we are a fallen people). Somehow I don't think this is what you are basing your knowledge of right and wrong on. Or am I wrong? (on this assumption-I know you think I'm wrong on many other points
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Wow.....this is deep...but I stand exactly where brad stands (although staying one thing is alot harder than living it, gratefully I haven't been challenged with any moral hardships yet.) which brings up a question for brad..what denomination and religion are you? If Catholic or Protestant, and if prostestant, what denomination?

Me personally am baptist. i can't see being anything else fesable, if you believe that Jesus what baptised by John the Baptist and given God's grace how can you accept otherwise?

Anyway I haven't read anything but the first and last pages,(excuse me but i'm impatient) and just wanted to clarify what the Bible has described heaven and hell to be. First describing hell. To my knowledge hell is going to be on Earth for like the first thoudsand years or something (I'm not quite a Bible beater like brad) but is says that any man (or woman) who is found in the book of life will be cast into the "lake of fire".
Years later after the great battle of good and Evil, God will return his people to Earth to Estblish and 10,000 year reign.

Heaven is described as having Streets of Gold. Also says that we will sing and preaise him (God and Jesus) for ever and ever (essetially eternity). We will never be sad nor hungry.

To my knowledge (which means there's problably a lot more!) that is how heaven and hell are described.

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Dreadnaught I am, as mention a few times in this thread
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, a Jehovah's Witness. You seem to be quite interested in learning and about the Bible, if you want, PM me, and I'll tell you what we believe on the subject in detail.
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Silence Fills the Nothingness......NERRRR!

Even though stuff happens that we don't plan, be a man... use you hand.

I'm in love and it's my job to make other people jealous.
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<FONT size="1">My first time posting in this topic. I tried to read it all, but gave up after the second page. </FONT s>

Now, skipping the religious discussion here, I do have an opinion about having sex:

My opinion used to be that having so-called one-night-stands won't hurt and can be a good end of a party e.g.. But now I have a girlfriend for about 3 months (little more) and we've had sex. Not immediately, but pretty soon though. And <u>now</u> I am so happy I haven't done it with anyone else before!

But I actually can't imagine I'll ever regret I've had sex with her if we break up <FONT size="1">(and every week it's getting harder to imagine that too
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Anyway, I also know persons who do have one-night-stands and are perfectly happy with the way they're living. It's just personal and in my opinion it's imperitive you have sex with someone who feels the same way about this. Otherwise some deep regrets might occur.
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Originally posted by Leowind:
FL2
I didn't say I had absolute knowledge, I said I knew the truth of right and wrong. Anyone can share that knowledge.
I'm glad to hear you clear up your view on this. To be honest, many of your earlier posts (especially in some other topics) came across like you were claiming absolute knowledge, at least about the subject at hand. Personally, if you are basing your knowledge of right and wrong on what your conscience tells you, then even there you're on shaky ground. Yes we all have a conscience, and yes there is right and wrong, good and evil, but our conscience can be affected by many different factors, some even outside our knowing, that prevent it from working perfectly within us (we are a fallen people). Somehow I don't think this is what you are basing your knowledge of right and wrong on. Or am I wrong? (on this assumption-I know you think I'm wrong on many other points <IMG SRC="http://forums.civfanatics.com/ubb/wink.gif" border=0> )

First off, moral absolutism is just a worldview based on the idea that right is always right, no matter where you live, and wrong is likewise always wrong. No matter where you live, or whose opinion you poll, an evil act is always an evil act, under absolutism. You may be confusing the word absolutism, with absolute.

As far as knowledge of good and evil goes, we all are born with it. Everyone except the insane have a conscience. That alone is proof positive. The conscience is an inborn thing, and a consequence of Eve's faithless act in the Garden.
 
FL2 is right... everyone has a conscience, but many have had it jaded and/or choose to ignore it for whatever reasons. Somtimes they have been shown otherwise by parents, family, media, whatever... for example, to stay with the topic, sex before marriage. Now this is wrong, the bible says so, so do many peoples inborn conscienciouses, but due to growing up in a world where this is accepted people find nothing really wrong with it... it is a sliding scale, it started right away when Adam sinned in the Garden.

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Silence Fills the Nothingness......NERRRR!

Even though stuff happens that we don't plan, be a man... use you hand.

I'm in love and it's my job to make other people jealous.
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