A lot of this reminds me of an argument I had last year with my cousin while I was visiting Canada. He was complaining about women stars in action movies being too "unrealistic" because they're able to display feats of strength. I told him there's no such thing as a realistic male action star, people can't really do what Arnold Schwarzenegger or Sylvester Stallone do, so why don't you complain about any of them? It's all fantasy, why is it only a problem when women are portrayed as being competent?
I feel what you're saying here is that women being equal to men is a "fantasy" idea ... eech. If you don't care about those things, why do you bring them up? Do you feel we should be impressed by how "tolerant" you are while you're complaining about inclusion?
You do know that WWII wasn't won almost single-handedly by this one male super-soldier who doesn't eat, sleep, or go to the bathroom, can run and fight for days at a time and make incredible jumps? All of it is fantasy, your character you create didn't really exist or do those things, so since thing's aren't realistic anyway why can't you play as a woman? All games are fantasy, that's kinda the point, right? To insert yourself into a setting and make a difference ... if you want absolute historical realism, I feel you'd be better off watching a documentary about what real people did in real wars.
So basically do you feel you should have the right to insert yourself into WWII, but I should not?
And if you say you don't even play these games, why do you even care? Do you feel that female representation, just its mere existence, is really harming you that much?
No one's asking your permission on what types of movies we can enjoy. Please realize you don't get to decide what works for other people, it's not all about you all the time. This is the problem with the lines of thinking from people such as yourself, thinking things should only exist if you like them, and objecting to other people being able to enjoy things that aren't 100% catered to you. So what if you can have a female character in a WWII game? If you really can't handle that, it seems to me you're the overly sensitive one, and not these "SJWs" (I really hate that term being used as a pejorative, and in my mind really says a lot about you as a speaker) you keep whining about.
Solo did poorly, and ironically it's their only recent Star Wars movie that didn't have a female lead. But you don't hear people complaining it failed because it's a white male hero being "shoehorned in", do you? That's what privilege is all about. If a movie with women characters does poorly, it's because of a "failed SJW agenda forcing things in."