Ok, so I took the advice on board (Well, everything before my last post yesterday anyway) and started a game at home last night.
Cheiftan/Standard/Med&Small
Playing as Monty (I really like the Spi trait and Agg is a good trait to have if I'm gonna be warring).
I started with quite a few rivered grasslands, with some hills (some grass, some plains), few dotted plains about. There was pigs in the cross, it was coastal and the shape looked like it was probably island or smallish snakey continent.
I soon discovered Ghandi, who founded Hindu and Jew, and spread Hindu to my capital and my second city (Which was forced to be on Tundra... no ice though fortunately. Quite a few hills, some copper, sheep in the cross. Gold just outside, and its a close to Delhi, so it will make a good launch base. Not Coastal, although close to it.
For techs, I straight bee-lined to bronze working because capital was surrounded by forest, so nothing would get built without it. That kinda then led to continue into iron working, because well, duh. Jaguar!!!!!!!
I've now wiped India off the map. Had two cities, and I took advanged by claiming Delhi for my own, then peaced for some reli techs. I then traded (totally in his favour) for the rest of the techs he had before hitting war again, and sacking his remaining city (was a horrible location that inpeded on both Delhi and my second city.
Its been alot of fun. I've taken lots on board... infact, my problem now is that I think I've got too carried away training units. Losing too much money! I've just met the HRE bloke... unfortunately it seems he met Ghandi. And hated him. Becase I'm now his worst enemy for trading with his worst. And the only other person I met was Ghandi. You'd think he'd love me for wiping the peaceful fool of the earth!!!!
I've hit optics.... but theres been hardly any wonders built. I'm now B-ling to guilds to get money buildings, Delhi is sooo a great person farm (3 sea food + cows.). I'm also founding my 5th city, but that will it for this part of the lane, I'm now going to focus on getting my research back to 100, and then take down the Holy Roman Empire. Have plenty of cats and jags... just need to get the transports sorted to take them over land. Already have a spy on his way to scout for me.
Its definately a much more absorbing game when you war. Its also making me micro manage alot more where I am generally actually doing something each turn, so I look at the cities more, and in turn tweak more.