You just need to put yourself in positions where you can learn the high end fine dinning skills, preferably in your 20s. I am by no means the best chef in the Twin Cities but just by the fact that I have a brain that works and spent 10 years as a fine dinning line cook I am far beyond most of the people I compete with for jobs. In my 20s I didn't make much money but was focused on learning everything I could about cooking. And I worked really hard. Now I run a mid to high end kitchen with 23 cooks, sous chefs and dishwashers. I don't cook the line evey day or even regularly, I just coach mostly, which is good because I am becomming too old to cook the line every day (though I am still the fastest and most "on it" saute cook in my kitchen I swear.

just don't ask me to do it for more than 2 hours a day). The thing is though, once you get to that level (like all the others) you are competing against fools, mostly, and your job is always secure and generally well paying by that time because of it. Like I said I am not even close to being the best chef in the Twin Cities even, at the same time I've been written about in the daily papers and have a pretty comfortable life and job, I'm probably in the top 50 locally (and still hope to go much higher, though I have to improve my manegement skills and my cook's cooking skills for that) and it wasn't really that hard to do. Cracking the top 15 in the Twin Cities will take some more work but it is my next goal. If you have an aptitude for cooking, an ability to multitask on the fly, a brain that works, a good sense of organization and an appreciation of adreneline it is not a bad career beacuse you can generally outcompete the other idiots and get payed a lot of money to do it (once you get to that point). You don't even have to be a jerk to pull it off, though a bit of pointed sarcasm helps.