Would You Date A Stripper?

[Immortal]

No, because the qualities I look for don't include sleeping with other people.

Granted, however I need not tell you about VIP rooms, bachellor parties and the red curtain do I?

These situations can begin at a lapdance, and can go anywhere depending on such things as the management of the establishment. Would this detract from you dating her? Knowing there is a possibility that she could have done this before, and may be asked to again?

 

[emzie]

No, because the qualities I look for don't include sleeping with other people.

@augurey I was just joking .

I know. She is hot though.

Michelle: If you read this, I'm only kidding.

 

[jack merchant]

@Immortal

That's changing the assumptions though - and besides, the chances of me even meeting anyone from that line of work are negligible anyway.

 

[Speedo]

I could date a former stripper, given that certain qualities were present. I would not date a girl currently involved in it.

 

[Immortal]

@Jack

I figured it was part of the assumption that strippers give lap-dances, (sorry)is this uncommon in the Netherlands?

Chances might be better than you think. Who knows what is in store for you next time you go to the grocery store, or ride a bus.

 

[jack merchant]

@Jack

I figured it was part of the assumption that strippers give lap-dances, (sorry)is this uncommon in the Netherlands?

Not uncommon that I know of, but then, I've only ever been to one strip club (at a bachelor party, naturally). They did in fact give lapdances there.

Chances might be better than you think. Who knows what is in store for you next time you go to the grocery store, or ride a bus.

I'm afraid I live in a more, er, pastoral part of the country. It's not entirely a cesspool of vice !

 

[alphanav1]

Why would you not date a striper?

A lot of women, who end becoming a striper, or even a porn star, do it for monetary reasons. Sure there are ones who do it for exhibitionism reasons, but it is mostly money. I am sure some women here at CU work at the local clubs, for some easy cash. Tuition is not that cheap at 15k for in state and 30k for out of state. They probably can earn a 1,000 a week, without working much.

Also stripers are just women after all, and so are just like the women you see in wall-mart. They are just as likely to cheat on you as any other women. Most women are faithful, it’s guy who have the most affairs.

There is a reason to date a striper, free lap dances. Who could say no to that?

 

[GenMarshall]

Personaly, I dont want to date a striper for one reason. She would cheat on me and run off with a better looking guy.

 

[Immortal]

Personaly, I dont want to date a striper for one reason. She would cheat on me and run off with a better looking guy.

umm.... Only a stripper would do this?

Contrary to what you might think some of girls who strip are just as uncomfortable with their body image as you are.

 

[alphanav1]

That is the sad reality of our society. It believes people who use their bodies for anything other than “pure uses”, some how have no morals, or is lacking in them, and that they are quite unintelligent. That is why most people regard stripers, porn stars, and prostitutes as dumb, unfaithful, and a lot of other negative connotations.

 

[Bamspeedy]

umm.... Only a stripper would do this?

How true!

You have to admit though, that a stripper has more opportunities for this to happen. Second worst (not counting prostitutes) is bartenders. They get flirted with dozens and dozens of times every night.

You'd have to be a pretty trusting person to date a stripper.

I think I would date a stripper, but the uncertainty that she might do something with someone else would probably kill me.

 

[Pasi Nurminen]

When I look for a relationship, I don't want the target to remove her clothes and bare her breasts and body in public for money. A relationship strongly implies that there are things that are reserved only for your partner, among them sexual activity.

 

[luiz]

Don't leave me hangin', why not?

Because I'm jelous and I react violently to guys that make moves on girls I'm dating.

 

[LLXerxes]

depends on:
how hot
a person who is not a prostitute (will that word get me banned?)
eh, something else...

Probably not, probably so. I'm leaning towards not...

 

[Sanaz]

No way, my wife wouldn't let me. If I weren't married, I don't think I'd care. As long as she didn't drink, smoke, do drugs, was healthy and smart, independent, etc. Basically, all the same things I'd look for in a partner no matter what their job.

 

[Ramius75]

Why not ? yes, i will date a stripper, and if meet the correct ppl, pros, porn star, anything. I dont care about the past. only thr future. Im sure if its the correct woman, i wouldnt care whats her background is.

Ramius

 

[GenMarshall]

umm.... Only a stripper would do this?

Contrary to what you might think some of girls who strip are just as uncomfortable with their body image as you are.

Well, thats comming from personal experiance when I was hurt by two women when they broke up with me after I discovered that they cheated on me. In sort, I dont trust women, especaly if they work in this sourt of industry in witch they would be labled dirogitory terms like "Sluts".

 

[alphanav1]

Because I'm jelous and I react violently to guys that make moves on girls I'm dating.

And most girls don't get hit on by guys? I mean, I have made passes at 5 girls, which have had boyfriends at the time, in the last year. Are you telling me your girlfriends never get hit on by guys? WOW!!!

 

[alphanav1]

Well, thats comming from personal experiance when I was hurt by two women when they broke up with me after I discovered that they cheated on me. In sort, I dont trust women, especaly if they work in this sourt of industry in witch they would be labled dirogitory terms like "Sluts".

Why does it matter what other people label them? It’s not their fault for that label, its societies. A lot of other girls are labeled sluts that don’t work in the “industry” you know. Simply because you are called a slut does not mean you will become a slut.

 

[LLXerxes]

Why does it matter what other people label them? It’s not their fault for that label, its societies. A lot of other girls are labeled sluts that don’t work in the “industry” you know. Simply because you are called a slut does not mean you will become a slut.

dude, use the edit button...

your right. at school alot of people call a girl (who's actually pretty nice) a slut.
Yet, if I wanted to date her I'd be very desperate