GhostWriter16
Deity
I'd be okay with a "civil unions for all" thing if the terminology is really that contentious, but I don't see why it ought to be. Nobody's forcing you personally to recognize it as a marriage.
Its not contentious for me to the point where I'd pick a candidate or not pick a candidate based on it. But I do think if the government is going to define marriage (I don't necessarily think it needs to do so) it should define it properly as a union between a man and a woman.
That does not mean gay people cannot have a similar legal union, in fact, I have stated support for such.
And you do come up with the rather thorny issue of two husbands who move to a state where marriage is constitutionally defined as not what they have. Can they file jointly for taxes or be compelled to testify against one another? Federal involvement to clear this up isn't forbidden by the Constitution as far as I know.
Legalize civil unions for crying out loud

Yes, GW, but you're stating your opinion as if it's a fact. Gay marriage is highly important to some people, as I know you're well aware.
No duh I'm aware.
Considering how people are being arrested without a warrant, our economy is in the tank, we're STILL in Afghanistan, we're STILL wiretapping peoples phones, people are getting seuxally assaulted in airports, the unborn are being killed while our government does nothing to protect them, and lives are being ruined but the drug war, yes, I am quite comfortable saying I don't consider it a huge issue.
Constitutionality is irrelevant here, actually. There's nothing about marriage in it at all (unless I'm completely wrong - I honestly don't know).
It's pretty insulting to gay people (and Yes, you almost certainly have a gay relative, a gay teacher, a gay friend) to say that their legal situation is not a real issue.
Because for millions of our compatriots, it is a VERY real issue. And if you turn out to be gay, it will also become a huge issue for you.
http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-cross-in-the-closet-timothy-kurek/1112999942
This book sounds pretty interesting. He lived as an openly gay man for a couple of years, and it completely changed his views on homosexuality. He even brought his mother's views around (she had been pretty anti-gay before).
Millions? I might question that high of a number.
Marriage recognition isn't going to change the culture for good or ill.
Its just a manipulative tactic and it gets a lot of people focused away from the real issues.
My ambivalence to this is not an ambivalence to the plights of gay people. Uganda proposed a law to EXECUTE homosexuals. That's certainly horrifying. Saudi Arabia and Sudan do similar. And so many other countries. There are a lot of countries where gays can be imprisoned or executed for their choices.
America? We don't persecute gays as a whole very much. The worst is that we don't recognize their legal unions. We aren't physically preventing them from doing anything. As such, it is NOT an "End of the world" issue.