Afforess
The White Wizard
I can understand that but they were both only cautious since I hadnt research writing to be able to have open borders or embassies. So I guess to avoid it they have to be annoyed with me before I declare on them.
That's nice having it the game but the "you are treacherous" should only apply if you attack civs that are pleased or are friendly to you.
Hmm, really? If you declare war on a friend with Ruthless AI, the friend should have a "-4, You Betrayed Us" modifier on them. Then, all other AI's you have met will get a "-1 you are treacherous" because you betrayed a friend. So, the question is who did you declare war on, and what was your previous relationship?