An upper class ?

As my brother in law (from NZ) would say, Kiwis have a case of "tall poppy syndrome".

He is right, we chop those who believe they are owed a higher status due to wealth down fast.
Our tallest poppy Sir Edmund Hillary could hardly be described as wealthy, but he earned his standing in the community.
Noticeable that he preferred to be called Ed, a humble man Sir Edmond.
 
Somebody from upper class is a person of good breeding who is well educated, well mannered and is exceptionally cultured. It has nothing to do with wealth.

It's like "grace", you can't buy it, you either have it or you don't.
 
Do they not use the term landed gentry in rural areas ?
Since I don't believe the people in question turn a profit solely by having peasant tenants work their extensive tracts of land and pay rents, would not the term be inappropriate?
 
Somebody from upper class is a person of good breeding who is well educated, well mannered and is exceptionally cultured. It has nothing to do with wealth.

It's like "grace", you can't buy it, you either have it or you don't.

Except that there are no working or middle class people who are upper class. ..... so it does matter.
 
Except that there are no working or middle class people who are upper class. ..... so it does matter.
That's not true. Of course, if you're living below the poverty line then yes it will have an influence on many other things but I don't think this is true for other people.

You are putting somebody in those said classes merely from their income or wealth.
 
That's not true. Of course, if you're living below the poverty line then yes it will have an influence on many other things but I don't think this is true for other people.

You are putting somebody in those said classes merely from their income or wealth.



No I am not, and you did not read my earlier post.

It is a matter of culture and economic standing.


You did not read my earlier post, how low class of you :nono:
 
He is right, we chop those who believe they are owed a higher status due to wealth down fast.
Our tallest poppy Sir Edmund Hillary could hardly be described as wealthy, but he earned his standing in the community.
Noticeable that he preferred to be called Ed, a humble man Sir Edmond.
That's a admirable trait and is also revered here too. Basically, we both like the underdog. Where I think we differ is we place a high value on skills and leadership regardless of status and you'd rather find their weaknesses and prefer they fall from grace.
Somebody from upper class is a person of good breeding who is well educated, well mannered and is exceptionally cultured. It has nothing to do with wealth.

It's like "grace", you can't buy it, you either have it or you don't.
We're not royalists so that doesn't resonate here. I think many Americans find trust fund kids much less appealing than those who've stepped up to make a mark and become leaders in whatever field they excelled in. How you're bred has nothing to do with how well educated, mannered, cultured or, as snakeseare said, "classy" a person is here.
 
No I am not, and you did not read my earlier post.

It is a matter of culture and economic standing.


You did not read my earlier post, how low class of you :nono:
You can't buy culture. They're two completely different things.
 
We're not royalists so that doesn't resonate here. I think many Americans find trust fund kids much less appealing than those who've stepped up to make a mark and become leaders in whatever field they excelled in. How you're bred has nothing to do with how well educated, mannered, cultured or, as snakeseare said, "classy" a person is here.

LOL! Who said trust fund kids are well bred? :lol: :lol: :lol:
 
You can't buy culture. They're two completely different things.

Hence the word and



They use and in the southern Hemisphere right?



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I am rereading this to make sure I didn't mix something up..... but I think someone has just been that ignorant on a very short post.
 
That's why I use upper, middle, and lower income... there are rich people with no class, after all.
 
That's a admirable trait and is also revered here too. Basically, we both like the underdog. Where I think we differ is we place a high value on skills and leadership regardless of status and you'd rather find their weaknesses and prefer they fall from grace.

We're not royalists so that doesn't resonate here. I think many Americans find trust fund kids much less appealing than those who've stepped up to make a mark and become leaders in whatever field they excelled in. How you're bred has nothing to do with how well educated, mannered, cultured or, as snakeseare said, "classy" a person is here.

They had a poll for the most trusted and greatest living Kiwi. Corporal Willi Apiata VC was found to be that person.
Victoria Cross awarded for the valor he showed in carrying a mate to safety under heavy machine gun fire.
He then gifted his VC back to the nation.
A man of class and leadership, but not a man of wealth.

But I have no time for those who would worship the wealthy for the fact they are wealthy.
 
If I move into a million dollar home, and my younger cousin lives there with me, when he brings a few rich kids from private school home and I let one of them gey a swollen cheek in my back yard...... well I'd get sued.

You have a very, VERY strange idea of how rich people act Elta. Probably born of envy.
 
Class can be defined as wealth or social class, but the fact of the matter is 100 million dollars will not make you fit in in a neighborhood where the median home price is 1000k and the median home income is 350k per year.

There are things that you are brought up with, things people find acceptable and things others don't.


Somebody from upper class is a person of good breeding who is well educated, well mannered and is exceptionally cultured. It has nothing to do with wealth.

It's like "grace", you can't buy it, you either have it or you don't.





"manners" dont define class. this is ridiculous.
 
It is very simple guys, social class and economic class are simply different concepts using the same word. This is not unique in the English language.
 
Far from it. For instance, I know of some very humble local poets and artists who are free to navigate through the upper crust of Charleston society, and they are dirt poor. At the same time I am friends with a local concrete contractor who is swimming in cash who would not be welcome in the same circles (and could care less about it).

They are two completely distinct measurments, it is the insecurity of class warriors that insists they be linked.

Another measurement beyond culture or wealth to measure who gets to be within what circles is power. A police chief does not have wealth and may be crude as hell, but he moves through the upper social circles all the same. Even in my case to a limited degree, if I throw on my SDBs I am more than welcome to be included inside circles I otherwise wouldn't be.
 
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