It all depends on how active you want to be, or are able. My wife and I work opposite shifts so that we take care of our kids, which means I work in the evening and can't attend meetings or most weeknight functions. I did join a Lodge that meets on the first Saturday night of the month, but its smaller, so not very active. I am the Lodge Education Officer, so I'm a little bit active researching for that, but not very. I'm not sure if that answer your question.