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I am currently taking Comparative World Religions in College and I heard from the professor that we would be taking a couple of field trips to various religious places in the area such as a Jewish Temple/Synagouge, Christian Church, and a Islamic Mosque.

I am wondering what the protocall for a non-Muslim when they enter and visit a Mosque as to avoid any Faux pas.
 
I am wondering what the protocall for a non-Muslim when they enter and visit a Mosque as to avoid any Faux pas.

Just the same protocol you use anywhere in life: being respectful, gentle, courteous, etc. The same protocol as any religious place such as a church or synanogue.

Other than that, I can think of only two additions:

1. You should be dressed appropriately and conservatively. You don't have to dress up formally or anything, but you shouldn't like wear a t-shirt with lewd slogans on it. Furthermore, avoid wearing any clothes with pictures of animals or humans on it. The reason for this is that such images are prohibited in the mosque (it was a measure to prevent idolatery that was rampant in that time, in which idolaters used to bring pictures of humans/animals to worship in the Holy Mosque of Mecca). As for women, they should dress very conversatively, and cover up until their ankles (i.e. not wear skirts) and to their wrists (full sleeves). They should not wear low necks and their clothes shouldn't be excessively tight. The headscarf is not mandatory. You won't be shot for not wearing one at least. :) Actually, so long as a woman is not dressed completely skankily, I think most people would be understanding towards non-Muslims. Even wearing short sleeves or something like that wouldn't be a big deal, but I am just saying what to wear if you are trying to be extra cautious here.

2. Take off your shoes in the prayer area. :)
 
True, God cannot die or be killed (thankfully, praise God). but is there any kind of sacrifice of this kind in Islam that happened with Christ which stands out? Some great divine act that is nothing short of miraculous.

Put aside whether or not it happened with Christ.

All of Allah's Messengers risked their life, property, wealth, and prosperity to preach God's Message. We believe in all of the Prophets, and many of the sacrifices narrated are the same as in your Judeo-Christian stories, including the story of Prophet Abraham (as) and his son.


I'm sorry if this has been asked before but where are you from Salah-al-Din. I don't want to wade through the whole thread to find the answer.

Hehe, yes it's been asked a million times, so I just updated my profile to reflect my location. I am currently in the USA. However, I plan on relocating to Dubai after my medical residency/training is over, Allah Willing.

What are the historical reasons for the laws against the consumption of alcahol(I know why these make sense) But where did they originate?

I do not know about what the historical reasons are. I can only assume that they are the same as the reasons that alcohol is scorned in today's society. Allah says in the Quran:

"They ask you about drinking and gambling. Say: 'There is great harm in both, although there is some benefit for men, but their sin is greater than their benefit.'" (Quran, 2:219)

It should be noted that we abstain from alcohol not because it is unhealthy but rather only because it is forbidden by Allah. There is always a reason Allah forbids things: sometimes we know it and other times we don't. Sometimes the benefit of the law is manifested before our eyes and other times it is more subtle or the benefit is in the Unseen realm. Allah says that He never enjoins anything on us unless it is for our own good, and that none of the Laws benefit Him but rather they benefit us. But the reasons are always secondary in any case, and the prohibition stems from Allah saying so and the justifications for this are secondary, used only to boost our faith in the Command and nothing else.

Do you think it's right that a Muslim can judge another Muslim as being heretical or not correct in his beliefs?

If a person claims to be Muslim and spreads heresy and incorrect beliefs in the name of Islam, then it becomes Wajib (obligatory) to correct him and to refute his misguidance so that people not be misguided. It is not an option to do so, but rather an obligation.

Do you therefore think their is a good basis for the speration of Shea and Sunni and for their animosity?

People mistakenly think that it's half and half, Sunni and Shia. No. Sunnis constitute 90% of the people who claim to be Muslims. On the other hand, the (12er) Shia are only 8%.

The orthodox Muslims, who make up a 90% majority, disassociate themselves from the break away sects, just like mainstream Christians distance themselves (rightfully or wrongfully) from the Church of Latter Day Saints or the Yehova's Witnesesses, etc. [Note: I am not passing judgment on the rightness or wrongness of either.]

In regards to animosity, I do not support animosity between the orthodox Muslims and the sects. I believe that they are two different faiths, but that Muslims are advised to be soft and kind to people of all faiths, so why shouldn't the Shia be included in this softness and kindness?

Neither do I support sectararian violence. I support the right to disagree, and agree to disagree. As Martin Luther King said, we should not be violently disagreeable, or something like that.

In the Christian faith there were some very good reasons for seperating from the Catholic church, but in Islam they seem more a matter of semantics than real dispute?

I believe that the differences between Sunni and Shia is just as great as between Catholicism and Protestantism. However, I do not think the analogy is applicable because Catholics and Protestants are both major groups. On the other hand, the Shia are only 8% of the total, and therefore I do not see it in the same way.

Nonetheless, just like Catholics should respect Protestants (and the other way around), I believe that Sunnis should respect Shia (and the other way around).
 
Where are you from originally? Where did you grow up?

I was born and raised in the United States. My parents are originally from Pakistan, and they are naturalized Americans.
 
Does one have to speek Arabic to practace Islam or can one practace Islam in one's native tounge or second non-Arabic language?
 
Does one have to speek Arabic to practace Islam or can one practace Islam in one's native tounge or second non-Arabic language?

I don't speak Arabic, so no, you don't have to speak Arabic to practise Islam. However, you'll come to learn and memorize certain Arabic words and phrases.

Having said that, it really does help to learn Arabic. Whereas it's definitely possible to be a good Muslim without knowing Arabic, it's impossible to be an Islamic scholar without knowing Arabic.

I've taken two years of Arabic, but was unable to keep it up due to my busy schedule. However, I plan on eventually taking some time off to learn Arabic properly, Allah Willing. It is very much worth it as a Muslim to learn Arabic.

The Quran is *meant* to be read in Arabic, and the English translation is not really the Quran at all. Oftentimes, English translations will be off, especially since Arabic is such a language in which one word has many roots and derivatives.
 
because muslims treat their wives like animals


Prophet Muhammad (s) said: "The most perfect of the believers is the best of you in character, and the best of you are those amongst you who are best to their wives." (narrated by Tirmidhi)

The Prophet (s) further said: "Treat women well." (narrated in Riyad as-Salihin)

Allah says in the Quran:

"O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should you treat them with harshness...on the contrary, treat them with kindness and equity. If you take a dislike to them, it may be that you dislike a thing wherein Allah brings about through it a great deal of good." (Quran, 4:19)

And in a similar vein, the Prophet (s) said: "A believing man should not hate a believing woman. If he dislikes something in her character, he should be pleased with another trait of hers." (narrated in Sahih Muslim)

The Prophet (s) commanded men: "Do not malign her (your wife)."

And Allah says in the Quran:

"Turn not away from your wife altogether, so as to leave her hanging. If you come to a friendly understanding (with her) and practice self-restraint, then Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Merciful." (4:129)

"And among His signs is this: He created for you mates from amongst yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts: Verily in that are signs for those who reflect." (Quran, 30:21)

The Prophet (s) said in his last sermon: "Treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers." (narrated Bahiqi)

In no uncertain terms, the Prophet (s) said: "A woman is the Queen of her house."
 
In Christianity, the focal point is Christ's death on the cross and resurrection - an act that is uniqie. What kind of a God would die for people only to rise again from the dead so that people can have hope and destroy the power of death. It is the single most fundamentally poweful features of Christianity.

Does Islam have anything even closely similar to this? Something of a bodily resurecction or miracle of this scale?

The Muslims believe that when Prophet Jesus (as) was put to the cross in Jerusalem that he was ascended to the Heavens. Prophet Muhammad (s) was also blessed with this experience; this was called the Night of Ascension, in which Prophet Muhammad (s) miracolously ascended to the heavens from Jerusalem.

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In regards to miracles, it is generally accepted amongst the Muslims that the greatest miracle that Prophet Muhammad (s) was blessed with was the Holy Quran.
 
Just the same protocol you use anywhere in life: being respectful, gentle, courteous, etc. The same protocol as any religious place such as a church or synanogue.

Other than that, I can think of only two additions:

1. You should be dressed appropriately and conservatively. You don't have to dress up formally or anything, but you shouldn't like wear a t-shirt with lewd slogans on it. Furthermore, avoid wearing any clothes with pictures of animals or humans on it. The reason for this is that such images are prohibited in the mosque (it was a measure to prevent idolatery that was rampant in that time, in which idolaters used to bring pictures of humans/animals to worship in the Holy Mosque of Mecca). As for women, they should dress very conversatively, and cover up until their ankles (i.e. not wear skirts) and to their wrists (full sleeves). They should not wear low necks and their clothes shouldn't be excessively tight. The headscarf is not mandatory. You won't be shot for not wearing one at least. :) Actually, so long as a woman is not dressed completely skankily, I think most people would be understanding towards non-Muslims. Even wearing short sleeves or something like that wouldn't be a big deal, but I am just saying what to wear if you are trying to be extra cautious here.

2. Take off your shoes in the prayer area. :)


I'd like to add something.

1+. Headscarf may or may not be required depending on the mosque (In Turkey all of them do). Some mosques might even have spare headscarves for tourist use (if you are ok with using those). So it's better to have one if you'll go to visit a mosque whose regulation you are not sure.

3. Don't stand/walk in front of the praying muslims.
 
4. You should not run around the mosque yelling "Die, Muslims! Die!"
 
I don't speak Arabic, so no, you don't have to speak Arabic to practise Islam. However, you'll come to learn and memorize certain Arabic words and phrases.

Having said that, it really does help to learn Arabic. Whereas it's definitely possible to be a good Muslim without knowing Arabic, it's impossible to be an Islamic scholar without knowing Arabic.

I've taken two years of Arabic, but was unable to keep it up due to my busy schedule. However, I plan on eventually taking some time off to learn Arabic properly, Allah Willing. It is very much worth it as a Muslim to learn Arabic.

The Quran is *meant* to be read in Arabic, and the English translation is not really the Quran at all. Oftentimes, English translations will be off, especially since Arabic is such a language in which one word has many roots and derivatives.

I don't speak Arabic either. For some verses I read multiple different traslations, each can be interpreted differently, and I end up wondering what the original says.

I also have a Turkish translation that lists all possible meanings whenever there is a multi-meaning word. It sometimes helps things, but sometimes it is even more confusing.
 
5. Do not fart excessively whilst in the mosque. Once or twice is the limit.
 
4. You should not run around the mosque yelling "Die, Muslims! Die!"

No, no, thats just German for: The Mosque, the

After all no German could be evil:mischief: (Simpsons quote)
 
Question: Why do you believe in God?

I don't mean to be coy, but to me, the question is: how can you *not* believe in God?

I guess for me it's just that I refuse to believe that *this world* is it. I refuse to believe that there isn't a great equalizer. I refuse to believe that sins and transgressions can be left unpunished. I refuse to believe that those who sacrifice their lives, wealth, and property to do good, would do so in vain.

But the reality is that I have always believed in God, always felt God. I am against the idea that you must have proof in order to believe in something. If you cannot find proof, that simply means you haven't found proof. Nothing more. It doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

I have never doubted the presence of God. Never had a moment of doubt on that. And surprisingly, I never had a doubt about my faith either. Maybe you will find me stupid for that, but I don't know, Allah and Islam just fit for me. I was not indoctrinated by anyone else, and in fact I started studying Islam by myself at a very young age. Something drew me in...and still does.
 
I don't mean to be coy, but to me, the question is: how can you *not* believe in God?

For the same reason I don't believe that there is an invisible, immaterial, flying dragon in my garage. The default position is nonexistent.

I guess for me it's just that I refuse to believe that *this world* is it. I refuse to believe that there isn't a great equalizer. I refuse to believe that sins and transgressions can be left unpunished. I refuse to believe that those who sacrifice their lives, wealth, and property to do good, would do so in vain.

So you believe in God because the existence of God makes the world a more fair place?

But the reality is that I have always believed in God, always felt God.

How do you "feel" God?

I am against the idea that you must have proof in order to believe in something. If you cannot find proof, that simply means you haven't found proof. Nothing more. It doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

I'm not asking for proof. Nothing is ever proven in science. I'm asking for evidence.

I have never doubted the presence of God. Never had a moment of doubt on that. And surprisingly, I never had a doubt about my faith either. Maybe you will find me stupid for that, but I don't know, Allah and Islam just fit for me. I was not indoctrinated by anyone else, and in fact I started studying Islam by myself at a very young age. Something drew me in...and still does.

With all due respect, I don't see why that matters. Just because you have never doubted something does not make it true.

But, I wonder, if you have never doubted the presence of God (whatever that actually means), does that mean that you have never seriously considered the possibility that no god exists?
 
For the same reason I don't believe that there is an invisible, immaterial, flying dragon in my garage. The default position is nonexistent.

Wrong. The default position is not non-existence. It depends on the object or idea being referred to. In your example, you chose a silly thing, so yes, in that case the default is non-existence.

So you believe in God because the existence of God makes the world a more fair place?

Yes.

How do you "feel" God?

It's a feeling.

I'm not asking for proof. Nothing is ever proven in science. I'm asking for evidence.

Oh, I'd never try to convince an athiest that God exists (a losing battle, since disproving is so much easier than proving). I was merely stating my own thinking, since you asked. :)

With all due respect, I don't see why that matters. Just because you have never doubted something does not make it true.

Never said it did. :)

But, I wonder, if you have never doubted the presence of God (whatever that actually means), does that mean that you have never seriously considered the possibility that no god exists?

Have I considered the possibility? Yes.
Have I ever *seriously* considered it? No.

I believe that the Unseen World will become a reality just like how thousands of years ago the Future was an un-reality but then turned into a reality. Thousands of years ago, people would have doubted the possibility of cars, planes, etc. The default position would be that it is silly to think that man can go so fast, can fly, etc.

Likewise, I believe that on the Day of Judgment (however many years away that is), suddenly the un-reality will turn into a very real reality. Really.
 
Wrong. The default position is not non-existence. It depends on the object or idea being referred to. In your example, you chose a silly thing, so yes, in that case the default is non-existence.

No, that is not true. There is no such thing as a "silly contention." All contentions without evidence are equally valid.


So you believe that the universe is inherently fair?

It's a feeling.

That's not really an answer to my question. Could you please give us something a little more substantive?

Oh, I'd never try to convince an athiest that God exists (a losing battle, since disproving is so much easier than proving). I was merely stating my own thinking, since you asked. :)

I'm not looking to be convinced. I doubt very many people are convinced by discussions on online forums, least of all the participants. I'm looking to have a discussion with you about why you believe in God. If this isn't an important part of the discussion, then by all means, I'll just consider it an interesting piece of information :).

Have I considered the possibility? Yes.
Have I ever *seriously* considered it? No.

How can you be sure that God exists if you have not seriously considered the possibility that he does not?
 
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