1. Do you think communism on a large scale can ever work without resulting in something like the USSR, the PRC, Cambodia, or NK? Surely even a red must admit that these nations cancelled out any good that they might have achieved.
Conceivably, yes, though I do not know of any real path to achieve that at the moment.
Going in more detail, this question, as I see it, sparks two possible concerns; the first is the old "is communism against human nature" argument, which I dealt with in depth here:
http://forums.civfanatics.com/showthread.php?t=287545&page=9
(sorry that I keep bringing up this link, but my post there was comprehensive and many of the questions are repetitive)
The second aspect is organizational. Is it possible that the only way to conceive communism is with dictatorships? In that regard, we have a rather more interesting topic. First, I see an inherent contradiction in any description of collectivist dictatorships, because collectivism is the politics of sharing everything (even things we normally don't, like means of production), while dictatorship is the politics of concentrating everything (even things we normally don't, like political power).
Therefore, it's very hard to describe such system in any terminology that makes sense. "Dictatorial collectivism" (a term that encompass communism) is an oxymoron IMHO, not better than saying "square ball" or "dark light", and flies in the face of not only material dialectics, but also of any form of conceivable communism that isn't so called due to misnomer.
(notice that I don't discard leftist or left oriented dictatorships - though the formation of any elite tends to, with time, form a conservative group that wishes to perpetuate power - but that is a discussion for a different thread). As so, I don't really consider any of given examples as forms of communism, but rather, as perversions of it.
Specifically in the case of the USSR, and the analysis of it's fall into a dictatorship, many factors have to be taken in account for what happened that are utterly ignored in the common frame of these discussions:
1 - there have never been there the "phase of enrichment" from Marx's prevision. Without that, there has never been the enlightenment of the proletarians that communism necessitates. The red jargon worked not as a new flag, bud just as a modern version of good old fashioned power struggle between middle class intelligentsia and the failing royal structure of old;
2 - As the new intelligentsia came to power without a fully conscious middle class, the distribution of power had to be limited to small regional leaderships, instead of being divided into the miniscule but all encompassing "soviets" (or local communities) as earlier envisioned. Therefore, the problem of concentration of power that is inherent in strugles between small elites got reinforced by a practical need;
3 - Again the lack of the enrichment phase were to cost dearly to the revolution. Because the new state had to substitute it with the infamous five-year plans that
required distant, brutal and concentrated decision-making powers, in order to "compensate", with the planning of the best application of resources, the lack of the regulating mechanics of the free marked. Bad enough, this path was reinforced by the isolation the Soviet Union suffered in international commerce, from fear of other nations that it's ideals would spread to their working classes as well;
4 - The isolation in commerce were a severe pressing factor, but perhaps worse was the political isolation and hostile attitude. Granted, the messianic desires of a world revolution was somewhat of a provocation (though I'd say that, as the west so dearly value the "marketplace of ideas", the different ideas from east should not be feared, but I digress), but it forced the militarization of the soviet block - and as we all know, military structures are highly hierarchal. This politic lead to such joyous eras in the 20th century as the rise of fascism (and WWII) as well as the Cold War, but these are symptoms of the struggle to keep the red flags in check.
So, it's impossible to tell what would have happened in the Soviet Union should those factors never existed. Perhaps it would have held a more mild political stance. Perhaps it would have been worse. Counterfactual history is somewhat of a futile exercise, but it seems logical that the path the USSR took was at least as circumstantial as it was inherent.
I don't know enough about the other examples to offer similar analysis, but I would be surprised if no similar influences had took place. So yeah, in short, I don't think we have reason to expect that future communist movements, if any at all will ever come, will be dictatorial.
2. Would you sacrifice the freedom of the individual, for the good of the state? If not how would you implement communism? If yes, then what else are you willing to sacrifice for the state?
The premise of this question is incomprehensible. Communism's core idea (at least in material dialectics) brings about the demise of the state and a form of enlightened anarchy. Socialism does presume the existence of the state, but short-lived while the organization necessary for communism is implemented.
To give any meaningful answer to this question, I'd need first that you specify what sort of communist plan you are talking about, because you can't be talking about Marx's.
3. Which would you prefer, every one have $10, or one person has $7 another $13, another $24, another $35, and another $48?
Despite all you have heard in the past, in communism and socialism, even with corruption of the leftist regimes of the real world aside, it's not true that every people have the same income. We have seen athletes, scientists and intellectuals that had more resources at there disposal than the average Ivan. Garry Kasparov and Yuri Garagin, to use famous examples, were people who had their talents recognized and were given special resources and training.
So, in communism and socialism, even in real life, systems of rewards were in place - and nothing in the theory forbids special rewards for special talent. What the theoretical build of the system determines is not a forced low average, but that no channel be permitted that would allow someone to gain not for the expression of their superior capacity, but arbitrarily, for being in the sweet spot of a chain of wealthy transfer (such as the dominion of the means of production).
So, your question is rather loaded, for it asks communists to justify something that has little to do with what they propose. You are mistaken the fact that, in real life, the rewards of capitalist counterparts were greater than that of communist workers, with a rather silly means of handling society resources.
That said, one more thing needs to be understood here: Whether a system of "everyone having $10" is "better or worse" than another in which " one person has $7 another $13, another $24, another $35, and another $48" is something that needs to be analyzed taking variables in account.
Let's skip the obvious (and rather silly) question of what position you occupy in the "variable income" system, and imagine an impartial judgment. Still, knowing which is working better to the society as a whole depends on evaluating what channels of investment of resources are in place, as well as knowing how many people occupy the wealthier spots in the second society. In other words, in a universe of 10.000.000 people, I'd "rather have" a society that every one has $10 than one in which 600 people has $13, 300 has $24, 150 has $35 and 75 has $48 - and in raw numbers, the former society would be much wealthier.
4. Do you think that representation has a place in communism?
It's impossible to organize a modern country without some form of representation. Our numbers are just too great. Even the most vicious form of dictatorship is, in some level, representation, albeit illegitimate.
5. How do you explain popular resistance to communism?
From within or outside the countries in which people lived the left-oriented dictatorships of the 20th century? 'Cause the answers vary to that factor.
In the populations that suffered it, I don't really know the extent of such resistance. Perhaps people who live in the former block can enlighten us on that. But I find obvious that there is a degree of discontentment with the people that oppressed them. If they truly identify that group to communism, than I suppose there is a reason right there.
As for the western world, well, much has to do with propaganda. I had mentioned it in the link I gave you, but Noah Chomsky short video posted by Cheez in #962 handles this more eloquently than I did.
Anyway, that propaganda was shameless, is a fact. My best point here is saying that religion was not such a big issue in USA politics before it wanted to separate itself from the "Godless Communists", and it's no coincidence that Fascism was born in the same country that holds the Vatican. To make sure that the worker class would not rise, the non-communist countries linked their very core Christian values with the very antithesis of the Soviet Union.
My mother studied in a Nun's school as a child. She says that her teachers used to say that communists did, quite literally, roast and devour little children in their countries, and oriented her to pray that they never take over Brazil.
Quite ironic considering the Church's standing record on pedophilia...
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