That is the question I'm asking, yes. What are your thoughts? Do you think certain social media posts by political leaders, the media and the masses in general when Islam is involved are handled very differently and indeed carefully when compared to other groups?
Is that not also related to some degree with in-group out-group ?
When I had as kid a quarrel with my 1.5 year older brother, it was often, at least under four eyes (no-one else there), much more inconsiderate forceful and hefty, than when I had a quarrel with a nephew, or someone living two streets away from my street.
The better you know someone, the better the natural bonding... the more easily you know where you really get in borderline area with unexpected escalations.
Seems in general a good practice to have more respect for bigger distance because of risks of the don't know type.
Which does not take away that I believe that the overcautious velvet gloves of political leaders to be "straight" is often not helpful at all.
Especially not when you can smell that they think at the same time something else and do themselves not really back what they say.
But that balance is very much a matter of culture, and the faster a culture changes, and the more atomised, fractured a society culture is... the more difficult it all becomes.
I think that the inability, or the laziness of many politicians to be more candid and sincere, if not blunt, spoken in more "normal" language, still in balance with their public position, had a disconnecting effect, a dis-cohesive effect.
But yeah... how often do you hear a politician, asked for his opinion on an event, say: "IDK, I have to think about it"
My eye-opener there was a book I did read on that civilian KAL 007 flight shot down by Russian fighter jets, when it entered Kamchatka Russian air space by mistake (the simple version). Cold war 1983. 269 casualties.
The Korean minister said after six hours already that "the plane had been forced to land, with passengers and crew safe." which was a BS lie.
IIRC a Japanese minister was asked for his opinion and gave that answer "IDK, I have to think about it", and spend according to the book the evening and part of the night sitting on his veranda to think about all the consequences.
And politicians in public positions that are no more than an amplifier at tweet-retweet speed..... hm... don't expect them to help solving the disconnect for more societal cohesion and tolerance.
Last edited: