Computer Science, not Computer Engineering. And I never said anything about dating.
I'm not less than optimal. I'm in the honors program (which is extremly selective; the size of the entire honors program is around 120 students) and a presidental scholar with a 4.0 GPA. I might ask what country you're from. In the US, there is a large push to get women into technical fields right now, so that's where the scholarship money is. I do have a cople of large grants from the univeristy, but even that only covers half of tuition.
The only place I could go to get a free ride is Wells College, which only started accepting men in the last decade.