We don't have any "infected" mark on those which do. So whether you want it or not, if you read the forum, you feel the way of negativity, even if it's not in all the threads. I understand that you may feel the same way about positive comments, though.
If the game is truly bad, which evidence shows many people believe, then discussion around it is going to always have some negativity. This is irrespective of anyone's bias or agenda. People with the other opinion won't be able to avoid it, unless a specific rule is made.
I don't think I've ever minded that people like the game. I don't think I've ever rushed in to say, "Actually, you're not having fun, you only think you are." It's when I or other point out something we dislike, and then there's a reaction that calls us pessimists or internet negativity sponges. Yeah, there's a natural desire to pushback against that. There's also substantive conversation of people hashing out disagreements in the process.
I haven't seen any single person on this forum who "consistently nitpick apart any criticism of the game" or "defend Firaxis at all costs". It's a common cognitive distortion to see people you disagree with as biased.
I certainly have. Everyone can have their own interpretation of evidence, but let's say you have really bad Steam reviews, major influencers disliking the game, an objective clearly poor performance in daily players. For someone to then insist over and over again that there are invisible console sales that prove that actually that evidence is incorrect - that's a bit incredulous.
So, if someone is making incredulous arguments, and then they show up in every single negative topic and continue to make further incredulous arguments on completely different topics than sales, to my interpretation, this feels to me like consistent nitpicking of any criticism of the game.
Meanwhile, when people simply disagree that the game isn't fun and claim that it's fun for them, this to me is not "consistent nitpicking". It's an opinion. Since I can clearly perceive instances where disagreement with my view is someone else's opinion versus someone else's apparent agenda, then I don't think my feelings in this area are a "cognitive distortion".
Thank you, however, for proving my point that there's a "side" in this discussion that cannot accept that people with a negative view simply have their opinions, but rather that we are victims of "misinformation" or "cognitive distortion". Always always questioning our character, or attributing our opinion of the game to anything other than a substance and genuine reaction to actual flaws with the game.
This cognitive distortion works both sides. So, the only way to actually understand each other is to stop labeling each other as haters or defenders and try to read each post as if it's written by someone neutral.
I always do this. I have sharp disagreements with people in one thread, but then act like that never happened when engaging in other threads. But, if I started reacting to this post with some measure of neutrality, in my opinion, I'm leaning towards applying a label.
You do realize that you cannot accuse people of cognitive distortion then pull back and retreat as if you're an agreeable player who is the champion of neutrality, right?
Well, I want to avoid being punished for contributing to a forbidden tone. So, I will cease discussing the "sides" topic in this thread at this point. I just have to highlight that the toxicity comes from those who label others as victims of "misinformation" or "cognitive distortion" while the rest of us are discussing food growth rate curves, sales figures, and so forth. There's this motte and bailey tactic where people sally forth and launch inappropriate accusations, picking fights, while retreating to claimed neutrality and painting themselves into victims of the toxicity they are constantly injecting. I can only ask this one last time, please stop this.