I dont get it. When i played in prince or king levels, i would just wherever i want and thats it. In deity i need to restart like 5 times to get a "good position" (a city with one luxury, some bonus res, and i need to place the city on a hill).
And what should i do early? I do scout-worker-settler-worker-archers-horses when possible and then wait for war. Is this ALWAYS the way to go? How many cities should i control?
And i never build trading posts. I just dont know when its good to make a post and when its good to get a farm. Is there some ratio? Should i always build monument? Shall i make temples or graneries?
And what about the world? I play standard map size(comp cant handle other sizes) with 16 CS yet i always meet like 4 and NEVER meet a maritime. How mant scouts i need to maintain(my scout always turns to archer from ruins)?
And what should i do early? I do scout-worker-settler-worker-archers-horses when possible and then wait for war. Is this ALWAYS the way to go? How many cities should i control?
And i never build trading posts. I just dont know when its good to make a post and when its good to get a farm. Is there some ratio? Should i always build monument? Shall i make temples or graneries?
And what about the world? I play standard map size(comp cant handle other sizes) with 16 CS yet i always meet like 4 and NEVER meet a maritime. How mant scouts i need to maintain(my scout always turns to archer from ruins)?
and not if you don't. You don't want your cities to grow bigger than they need to be.
to get the bonus 
Probably there are more deity videos.