my 10 years old daughter wins on settler, and she basically knows nothing of the game, not even the victory conditions
cabert,
I don't presume to be telling you don't know your children, so let me try to say this with as much respect as possible: You'd be surprised that which a 10 year old can precieve. I started playing Civilization 1 shortly after its release. I was 11 or 12 years old at the time. It only took me a few months to work my way up to Emperor.* Of course this was a different game for a different time which could be beaten with virutally one mathematical formulia, but my point stands. I believe your daughter has a better grasp of the game than you realize. And quite honestly, that's a great thing! Many "educational" video games have shown me the door to all sorts of interesting parts of the world, mostly science and history for me. I still needed to open that door, but the books served as a pointer to the door.
*Even when I was playing MUDs, FPSes, RTSes, Flight Simulators, MMOs, etc., I still played Civ 1 and Civ 2 on occasion. That is, up until I bought Civ 4. I've been playing Civ games for virtually 2 decades now. I imagine there are others on these forums with similar stories as well.
I don't pretend to be an expert on parenting, and I may be overstepping my bounds here, but if you're not already doing this I highly suggest that you get involved in the parts of the game she likes the most (Combat, Civics, Does she have a favourite Civilization?) and use that as a foundation to educate her (and possible yourself) in that area. I'm not saying that if she tends to enjoy Universal Suffrage that you should train her to be a politican,

but more along the lines that you should teach her what it means. I know how difficult it can be to teach children new information, as I was only recently that child. But if she already shows an interest something, it could help you out in furthering her education.
Perhaps I am being too presumptious here, and I'm sorry if I am. I attribute the fact that I didn't fail my high school junior US History class on the fact that I played a World War 2 Flight Simulator in the years prior. This perked my interest in WW2 and I researched a lot of information on my own. If my parents or friends had wanted to learn about the same subject with me, I'd gladly have welcomed them in with open arms, and probably have learned a lot more at the same time.
Wow, I'm way off track here. I think I'll just stop here before I get into trouble telling you how to raise your child.
