I think the point is that it is better to work some stuff out on your own.
Why not try some of the easy minor gauntlets in the HOF forum (try the BtS one from 2 weeks ago, quickest space win on settler level with any map type and leader, dual map size [1 or 2 opponents], quick game speed), then look at the write-up/discussion thread (I think it was BtS beta 4). You don't need to actually use the HOF mod to try them out but the threads are full to the brim of helpful advice, and everyone is trying the same game settings.
EDIT: The nice thing about the gauntlets is that you are told what victory condition to go for (most of the time), which focuses you on the winning condition from the get-go. Plus there is a discussion forum where you can get tips and advice. You can always play at a lower level, the tactics are going to be pretty similar. It also makes you think what leaders are going to be good for the victory/map you are going for (e.g. current minor gauntlet is a continents conquest challenge at monarch difficulty at epic speed, so Ragnar might be a good choice, or the Romans, or any civ with an early UU [to clear your continent], or one with a late UU [to clear the other continent], etc.)