I've gotten into this game for real, took some time aswell.
With only two cities I have managed to get far ahead in tech. Almost got Steel from lib, but had to go with chemestry as William was close to getting it aswell. But I've managed to take over all of England with a mix of Granadiers and Cannons. Still got a solid tech lead to Russia, but she got 5X my powerrating 8X my empire size and 4 vassels, will post if I should survive.
It's very interesting, I can't decide if I will go for attacking weak oppenents, or if I should go for the big dog now. Thinking I should try the big dog here, but it's damn hard, but really lots of fun at the same time I love this game
My start was 3 warriors, workboat, greatwall. Worker Worker and then settler

Was lucky yhr warriors survived only had one standing in the end, but managed. My tech was Mining -> Masonry and then BW. Was abit lucky with huts though, got wheel from huts and pottery later on. Maybe helped alot. My second city was founded NE of the fish you can see in the south. England in my game really hardly had any problems with the barbs for some reason, maybe some improvements, but no cities where lost :O