Why did you put "Marxist-feminism" in inverted commas? I didn't just make it up you know
I know, yes, I was quoting you. The idea being that you would then respond with some elaboration upon the concept of "Marxist-feminism", and, as indicated by my fourth question, why you hold this school of thought (which does exist, no questions there) to be representative of mainstream feminist thought? (And, while we're here, why you assert that "Marxism" is a necessarily negative or discrediting prefix, beyond your own personal prejudices.)
prescriptive binary-gender norms
sexual anarchism
subscriptive notion arrived at by consensus
fluid, subscriptive system of gender
a patriarchal society rooted in a binary model of gender and sexuality
Those are all pretty well defined and elaborated on, if you read the right stuff, and not at all contradictory. They're also things that I've just said, so I find it hard to believe that they are derived from any personal experience of feminist thought.
For many of the more extreme feminists, childhood abuse, rape, being really ugly, domestic violence.
"Many of the more extreme feminists"? That's a rather ill-defined demographic. Perhaps you could elaborate upon the identity of these individuals, and their relationship to the broader movement?
They used to sum it up with a nice little phrase "make the personal political" which means - my father/husband was/is an absolute s***, so now we're going to make everyone else suffer.
That's a rather significant misreading of a political philosophy with a far broader application. It refers to the belief that personal development and growth can and do play a part in a broader political movement, in this case, that nurturing a stronger self-identity among women leads to a stronger political movement. It's a call for individual development and grass-roots activity, rather than, as you suggest, a mangle cry for attention. I would've thought that would be quite self-evident to a supposed Objectivist, given the obvious applications which the concept has to your philosophy.
Because third-wave feminism never really materialised did it? The hijacked platform of the original movement, as taken over by the ultra-left nutjobs, is still the most vocal and virulent form of feminism.
What do you mean "it never materialised"? It quite clearly exists, as five minutes reading a few of the more progressively minded feminist blogs quite clearly demonstrates. Granted, it never had quite the mainstream presence, granted, but that is a far more complex issue than "whoops, Traitorfish just made it up". I think what you're doing is taking a common stereotype and insisting that it is an accurate depiction of mainstream feminist thought, despite the fact that rather clearly have little to no experience of it.
I'm not aware of any societies that have deliberately and systematically made it their business to oppress women, and to oppress only women, qua women - without also oppressing men at the same time - simply because they were women. Such a society could not have survived.
Why does the feminist objection to the historical oppression of women necessarily imply that only women were oppressed? Certainly, most modern feminists make a distinction between the concepts of patriarchy and male privilege and the notion that men were entirely and innately free of any and all oppression. Now, granted, there's an argument as to what extent the oppression of men was related to gender, but this isn't something that's been overlooked. One of the failings of second-wave feminism was the lack of a common acknowledgeable of the gender-based oppression of men (noting that this oppression primarily took place at the hands of patriarchal society, rather than at the hands of women), but third-wave feminism seeks to correct that, among other failings of the second wave, and is consequently a far richer place of discussion for such topics, particularly in given the support for LGBT rights (specifically the "G", "B" and "T" bits), and, increasingly, for masculist thought and the progressive wing of the men's movement.