I honestly don't understand where the criticism is coming. The graphics accommodate the computer of the gamer, and the gamer can modify the graphics however he or she pleases in the Options menu. I was playing on Prince as well, and no civilization had ever even declared war on me -- in fact, I was the first to declare war on a civilization in my game. The fact is that the civilizations will pretty much abuse you, if you have a weak military and civilization in general -- as in technology, cities, etc. -- as they should. It gives that extra incentive to enact innovative ideas and take risks in order to keep a strong position throughout the game -- something that was never done well in Civilization IV. One of the best things I thought was in Civilization V was the presentation of it all.
The information isn't hard to attain at all. What the game developers did was to organize the information in a way that does not crowd the screen or menus but is also easy to find. There are only four tabs in the upper-right-hand corner of the screen, and I found all the information I needed -- the best of all being the inclusion of a literacy rate, which I don't believe was in Civilization IV, if I recall. The greatest improvement, of course, is the Social Policy system. The Civilization franchise has been on a trend to more sophistication in how the gamer can build up his or her civilization. From Civilization III to beforehand, the player could only pick one of five, blandly described, governments. In Civilization IV, the player could pick five of twenty five civics. Now, the Social Policy tree goes even further than the civics system, satisfying the hardcore historical gamer, as well as the creative gamer, as well as the gamer who only cares about the important parts of the game, for the Social Policy system is truly important on how a person's civilization gets run and functions.
Honestly, I bought the Special Edition of Civilization V, and I'll say right now that the game has not disappointed with me one bit for the eight hours I've tested and played the game straight. Now, in terms of the multi-player, I personally haven't checked it out yet, although I have heard some problems with it -- but I'm not a multi-player type of Civilization fanatic. If you are like myself and just want to sit down a play some Civilization from the dawn of man to the information age, then I can assure you that money spent on Civilization V, regular or special, will not be wasted.