The title of this topic is a question that I feel I have neglected to ask myself and completely answer throughout my 27-year career as a human being. As one who is in constant awe of everyone else here (both positive and negative), I felt I should present some of these questions that I have difficulty answering to what I like to call The Great Mind Collective: ( in need other perspectives, honesty; difficult questions, please answer...) Do you have a lot of friends? How do you define a quality friendship? How do you define selfish? Are you a selfish person? How do you define trust, and at what point does someone gain your trust? Would you ever share your darkest secrets with anyone, and if so, do you need to trust them (by your definition) first before doing so?