Sir_Lancelot
Emperor
Looks like part of the problem here is the fact that you mistake @ for swearing.No, peoples' excuse that "I didn't post a swear word, I just posted the symbols" is rendered moot.
Yes - its an insult to the intelligence of the moderators that people think they can argue their way out of an infraction after posting such things as "**** you" because 'it was only symbols'. This rule evolved because we got sick & tired of people claiming this.
And pushing us? We used to give people some leeway on this, and the behavior was appaling. For a week or so, we had to resort to instant 24-hour bans for language - not a great solution, but it was the only real way that we could set and get people to meet the expectations. I certainly don't want to have to do that again!
That's nice of you, and alwo a reason for liking and respect.However, I do give leeway. I (and most other mods) will just edit / delete language, with a reminder of the rules. I don't generally infract for language unless its specific and repeated.

I never thought of you as trigger happy.
Neither of us like swearing. What differ us here is the definition of swearing.This is an extension of the rule (as explained above) where we make no differentiation between people posting a swear word and posting the autocensor symbols.
As said (and quoted in agreement by you) - if you can't post without swearing, then don't post.
I do realize that there are more than one perspective to every issue. I have expressed my perspective and I'm glad you took the time to read it.I can't believe that an optimist who considers themselves a master of critical independent thinking wouldn't realise that there are two perspectives to every issue, and that on a site run as long and as successfully as this that perhaps, just perhaps, the rules had evolved over a period of time to meet changing circumstances, and that there is a valid reason for them.
Sure, this site has evolved to become a good place, still it needs to evolve more. The one problem here that I am pointing out, is the foolish illusion that #@ equals swearing. According to the rules it is, and that's exactly the problem. To continue defending the bad rule by waiving the very same bad rule (as you did in the beginning of your post) leads to nowhere, and I leave this now. I have made my point.