I might be interested in joining an RP game as well if someone could tell me how to play multiplayer. (I've only ever played single player in the past)
1) Download the Hamachi client(I think there is a link in the normal roleplaying thread)
2) Install & Launch Hamachi. After you get your account set up, join the FFHRP channel.
3) Everything is done in Hamachi from that point on. If you need help, just ask in there. Games are usually on Saturday.
As far as the RP/non-RP debate:
I agree that we need much more RP in our games than we have had in them, however I don't think the rules should be too strict. We're playing a game, not watching a movie; even the AI has the freedom to invent and change things. For example, I would be against any evil or neutral civilizations founding Order, but if it spreads to them later I wouldn't mind them converting. This is especially true if the game is diverging into two major alliances, as those games are a lot of fun and it doesn't make sense to say "No you can't convert and join our side". This does not mean Calabim players can ask a Bannor player to found Order for them, and then spread it to their lands so they can get Vampiric Paladins.
In regards to the Infernal/Mercurian issue, I think that after one thematically enters the game(Sheaim/Calabim/Keelyn/Clan summong Hyborem, or Bannor/Elohim/Malakim summoning Basium), any civilization not allied with the Mercruians or Infernal can summon the other one. We might strech this a bit, and say that any Good can start building the gate after AV is founded/adopted, because it's obvious that Hyborem is on the way.
As far as religions go, I think
founders should probably be restricted to this:
Order: Bannor, Kuriotates, Luchuirp
Empyrean: Malakim, Elohim, Kuriotates, Amurites
Runes of Kilmorph: Khazad, Luchuirp, Hippus
Fellowship of Leaves: Kuriotates, Elohim, Ljosalfar, Svartfalfar
Council of Esus: Sidar, Svartalfar, Khazad, Calabim
Octopus Overlords: Lanun, Balserphs(Perpentach), Calabim(Flauros)
Ashen Veil: Sheaim, Balserphs(Keelyn), Clan of Embers, Calabim(Alexis)
Once again, I think any religon can be adopted by anyone after it is founded, assuming there is a good reason for it(lots of other civs following it, lots of your cities have it, etc.)