
@ joespaniel
We all deal with tragedy in our own ways, and sometimes humor is not out of line.
I've been reflecting since my hastily typed post in here yesterday. Have been through two memorial services and watched much of what was on TV last night. It was incredible to relive those events. I almost felt like I was there a year ago again, not just remembering, but actually reliving. And it struck me that I had forgotten much of what happened and of what I felt. There has definitely been too much hype around that event and all the issues it raised, and around the anniversary just passed, but we MUST NOT allow avoiding the hype to rob us of the very real need to remember. We NEED to remember the horror of that day, the suffering of the innocents, the grief of those left behind. It is easy to remember the rage and the drive for justice and vengeance, but these become distorted and out of perspective without the other. I know I'm looking at my life and family differently today than I was yesterday, and the differences are good. I hope to be less self-centered, and give more of myself to my family. Heck, I might even give up some Civ-playing time just to be with them

At first I thought this would be good to put 9-11 behind us, and then move on. We do need to move on, but I honestly hope some sort of rememberance every Sept 11 can take place, every year, to remind us again of our humanity, in all its best and worst forms. I keep thinking of our previous "Day of Infamy," Pearl Harbor, and how that event holds very little real meaning for most people today. I know that is inevitable as generations pass, but I hope that does not too quickly happen to 9-11.