Entering this I 've never thought that it will be so easy to crash it. It is so sad to realize how much time is wasted and relationships spoiled. You, guys, have to treat the game like the game. Firsts of all it is the blame of rules which are obviosly not enough to arrange all the conflicts. It is not really hard to make it allways war and it is the only way it can be done imho. Though Grek may be takees allways war too literally and considers his honorful to attack everyone he sees. The only solution is to put exact order between conflicting parties and take the honest word that you are responsible for not making double moves even without intention. We have such expirience and it is not impossible, beleive me or not. The best way is the following: - when the conflict begin you point the phase you do your turn and never change it unless both sides agree or the contact stopped for a significant period of time; - use pauses to prolong phases because everyone can only follow 24 hours of time for his turns. Turn overall can last up to 2 or even 3 days but it doesnt matter if everyone is trying to move as fast as possible but has a 24 hours of time to manage turn. - be polite and respect your opponents.