I pretty much agree with Yamps' comments above.
Other thoughts.....
Maybe this is old ground, but I just want to get some strategy things straight for my own understanding:
1) Who is our preferred PA partner at this point? 2nd choice? 3rd? And why? Does this affect our civic choices yet? Are we trying to keep them all happy right now at any cost?
2) How do the AI feel about each other? For example, If we trade with Wash does Asoka get annoyed?
3) Are the trade availabilities discussed determined by what is white on the diplo screen, or has anyone actually tested to see what the AI will in fact accept in trade? (if so, isn't that against the rules or at least the spirit of them?) Does the willingness of one AI to trade change as we trade with others? In what ways do we expect that to affect our trade goals?
4) Also... what are we going to do when as soon as we get a tech, one of our neighbors demands it in tribute?
"Alt-tab and post here" can only work for so long... so please make sure all who will play turns understand the strategy and thinks about the "anticipatable deviating events" that might occur during a turn set. I'll probably come up with more ??? as I get back into the flow of this game. Hope I don't get too tedious for you all. Better that than I would make a devastating error on the fly.
We shouldn't rush ourselves. After all, I saw there are something like 354 days left to deadline. (LOL!)
Welcome back to the team kcd_swede!
1) PA partner. We haven't discussed it yet. I think it is too early to say for now. Personally, I think we should rush for the Military Tradition. It is important to ask the strongest civ on our continent first for the defensive pact so after 40 turns of DP we can ask
first for the PA.
2) You are welcomed to look at the save. Everybody is annoyed with Toku. I am not at my civ comp right now to tell exactly.
3) Melior has posted
trading possibilities. You can check it yourself, just don't do the trade by accident or sth. Watch what you click.
I've noticed in my games that trading possibilities change after every trade, prises go up. Btw, there was an idea to give Mysticism to Toku before, but we decided not to because Toku is Washington's worst enemy. Other trades aren't a problem.
4) We haven't mentioned this either.
"They ask, we give" should be our policy to everything except war declarations and trade embargoes, IMO. Anyway, it is always good to alt+tab and post.
(Just make sure that you haven't been messing with the .ini file. There is an option there that can cause the game to crash if alt+tab is pressed. Crashes every time if that setting is on.)
Regarding
questions, the more we ask them, better of we will be!
"Question everything!" 
After all, we are unusually suspicious subjects!
EDIT: (deadline)
No, that was a mistake by AlanH, he corrected it. We should finish in three months.