Sorry, being afraid of a rl meet because of stalkers is silly. You're just as likely to go to the supermarket and get stalked home as going to a rl meet of civfanatics. This is not a new idea or anything. Almost every gaming community I've found online has real world meets from time to time. I've never heard of any problems with stalkers or anything. It's just nice to get to see the face behind the text from time to time. And it lets you talk about your oddities. I know you all want to get off the computer and talk to everyone about civilization, but most people you know in real life don't care or you'll feel like a dork talking about it. But at a RL meet among civfanatics you have nothing to fear and they all would love to hear your thoughts.