Sucide Attempt at my School

[aneeshm]

Bronx is right here . Once upon a time , I was a social loser .

I'm still in school . I have exploited what little I know of practical human psychology to the utmost , and my situation has gone from bad to very good . Sucking it up is the best option , if the situation is a transient one . School is not permanent , your suffering will end . Suck it up . I did , and now feel that it was great that I did . It taught me a lot of things .

Having a resilent and optimistic outlook is what carried me through . All the ocnditions necessary to send me imto severe depression were there . Yet I did not succumb . It's called strength , and you have to develop it . Maybe it's a cultural thing .

 

[silver 2039]

The guy tried to cut himself during art with a metal ruler then again at luch with a bread knife What a loser

BTW he is gay he admitted it.

 

[IglooDame]

Sorry but there have been many people in the world who have lived through far worse and manged to suck it up and not kill themselves. I have no pity for anyone who cops out. Reality check, life is hard and most of them time harsh. If ya can't take the heat stay out of the kitchen.

Ummm... wouldn't suicide attemptees appear to be taking your advice in getting out of the kitchen, so to speak?

 

[Mathilda]

The guy tried to cut himself during art with a metal ruler then again at luch with a bread knife What a loser

BTW he is gay he admitted it.

:shakehead boys, boys, boys :shakehead

Serious question:
silver, what is the point of this thread?

 

[Gladi]

I agree, I just don't pity them or feel there " pain ", they could suck it up like the millions of others out there who do just that every day.

Bright day
I am sorry to hear that.
Have a bright day.

 

[silver 2039]

:shakehead boys, boys, boys :shakehead

Serious question:
silver, what is the point of this thread?

Disucssion on waht's up this guy? I mean seriously the dude does it all for attention or something. I don't get his whinings about life. Life sucks yeah ok so what? Deal with it. Life is a game like Civillization and if the AI invades you do you disband all your units and surrender or keep fighting?
The guy is a loser.

 

[Mathilda]

@silver - Did your mum ever tell you: If yoy've got nothing nice to say, say nothing.
I really sounds like you are just slagging this poor guy out.
Now doing it here, because we don't know him is on hand not so bad, beacause it's not hurting him. On the other hand you rather have a monopoly on the information, so all we can do is take your word on what he's like. I'm not saying you're not telling the truth, just that we only get one side of the story.
Still I first thought when you started this thread that you were genuinely concerned for this guy, worrying about his health. Now it seems you're doing it more to get the growd behind you as proof that you're allright and he's not.
My point is I appreciate people asking for help with understanding others. I don't appreciate anyone looking for support in kicking the one who's already down.

You've repeated quite a few times now that in your opinion this guy's a looser.
Are you looking for an ego boost or something?

 

[Birdjaguar]

Disucssion on waht's up this guy? I mean seriously the dude does it all for attention or something. I don't get his whinings about life. Life sucks yeah ok so what? Deal with it. Life is a game like Civillization and if the AI invades you do you disband all your units and surrender or keep fighting?
The guy is a loser.

"A feeling of compassionate mercy, the rest doesn't matter a damn."

-- Kenneth Patchen

 

[TrailblazingScot]

The guy tried to cut himself during art with a metal ruler then again at luch with a bread knife What a loser

BTW he is gay he admitted it.

If I know anything about children, I'll think I can guess what sort of "admission" it was.

Silver...you are a horrid little bully from the sounds of it, grow up.

 

[FearlessLeader2]

I am deeply offended by 'gay loser type'. Gay and loser are in no way connected, please check your thinking and until you understand that, at least refrain from voicing that sort of prejudice.

PLease understand that 'gay' has been co-opted out from under the homosexuals, and is no longer their word. Once it meant happy, once it meant homosexual, now it means losery, pathetic, and sad. Almost noone I know uses 'gay' when referring to homosexuals.

Deal with it.

 

[Mathilda]

Almost noone I know uses 'gay' when referring to homosexuals.

So we live in different places where people use different terminology.
Out of interest what word do they use?

Deal with it.

Nah, don't feel like dealing with it.
I feel like being offended by it.

 

[nonconformist]

Thank you for proveing my point Captian Obvious! When are you at the Hilton in Vegas so I can catch the full act?

I'm teaching people to spell.

 

[IglooDame]

PLease understand that 'gay' has been co-opted out from under the homosexuals, and is no longer their word. Once it meant happy, once it meant homosexual, now it means losery, pathetic, and sad. Almost noone I know uses 'gay' when referring to homosexuals.

Deal with it.

And yet almost everyone I know uses 'gay' when referring to homosexuals and apparently hasn't caught the new meaning of it.

 

[nonconformist]

And yet almost everyone I know uses 'gay' when referring to homosexuals and apparently hasn't caught the new meaning of it.

never mind.....

 

[Gelion]

Seems much more a cry for help than a true attempt at suicide. Or he would not have gone back to class and "not finding" the knife.

Doesn't mean it's not serious, though. Usually, real suicide attempts follow cry for help that goes unanswered.

Not much to add. The bad thing is that people around this guy will never try to help him. They are at that age.....
Someone wondered about School killings in US? If you treat people to the degree where they want to commit suiscide be prepared that one day this guy will come in with a gun.

Silver I hope you wil try and help this guy out. This is almost impossible but please give it a try. It is trully awfull to be like him and only because other people treat him bad . Of course none of us/you/them whatever would not want to be "connected" to this guy while helping him, cuz they will be laughed at. Think about it. He's a human being, and he's probably only thinks that he's a looser. Just because every school must have one. Its societies psychology. Isn't it about the time this changed?

 

[Lozzy_Ozzy]

Silver why are you being so horrible to this poor guy? For all you know he could be seriously in need of help, and this is out of experience! You need to give him help! I'm glad i gave help to my friend or he would have been gone...

 

[Gelion]

Silver why are you being so horrible to this poor guy? For all you know he could be seriously in need of help, and this is out of experience! You need to give him help! I'm glad i gave help to my friend or he would have been gone...

Yeah and it pays of. I helped my friend once and she helped me...

It is something humans do - help. Although I think I'm too selfish now to go through this again...
Basically, Silver, as it was already said you have 2 choices:
1. Be horrible to this guy as everybody else and not be laughed at. Be a part of the mob/croud, be accepted and valued by a bunch of selfish/stupid 16 year olds.
2. Try and help the guy out. Or at least stop being hobbible to him. He would be very happy even if you did stop laughing at him.
Although I do not know the guy personally to say something more specific.

On the other hand: this guy has the full right to come and shoot your whole school for being bastards to him not legitimate right, but moral right. If you were dying wouldn't you want your enemy to die with you? So if you make him suffer, one day he will make you suffer. He has nothing to loose as he thinks. And morally he will be right. Cuz you refused to help him... but of course officially he will be a "jerk"... and "murderer".
Luckily not all "loosers" are so selfish to kill thier classmates, but image one day that they had enough?