i get your point ... but seriously do you think the US gave much attention to how the Netherlands or Romanians wanted to do the reconstruction and transition to Iraq control... seriously
Not only did they care, they gave them whole zones controlled solely by those nations. Granted the US wanted (just like everyone else) an integrated approach and coordination but the idea that the other nations had no say is ridiculous. Thats like saying the British had no say in Overlord because Eisenhower was in charge.
It is more accurate to say that the nations got as much say in the reconstruction as their participation in it warranted. Nothing says they couldn't have participated more.
Do you think the US would have objected to the Netherlands contributing a couple divisions instead of a reinforced regiment? I highly doubt it (assuming they didn't put the logisitics burden on the US, even then I bet they would have welcomed it).
the British and Australians have done things differently in Iraq and Afghanistan , with some success, while still working closely with the US, but the others were their just to support the US, like Japan who went unarmed (practically) and required Australians to guard them
Well whose fault is that, the US or those other participants?
And I don't see what your problem is with the Japanese contribution. Not all requiremnts in Iraq were for armor and infantry. We needed just as many EOD, engineers, military police, logisiticians and any number of combat services/combat support types as bullet hurlers. Compared to some other similarly sized and rich nations the Japanese contribution was amazing, especially when you think about historical circumstances that deployment was made against.
the Australians are there just because ... thats the deal... we go where the US goes
Hardly. They went for the same reason the likes of the Netherlands, Norway and Iceland went, they agreed with the operation.
even the British kept saying we stand WITH the US shoulder to shoulder, its a US adventure, they got help and support from just about everyone
The simple reality is that the rest of the world does not have the ability to conduct such operations without the US, that says nothing to the legitimacy or overall feasability of such operations. Thats just a fact of life, that does not mean they are being dragged kicking and screaming to the Iraqi border.
The intervention in Libya couldn't be (and wasn't) conducted without the US, so what?
and really what do you seriously think Iceland can do apart from lending support and legitimacy to this US adventure, that is what the US wanted,
What they can, which proportionally was a hell of a lot more than some others did. Iceland, a far away country with little resources but a big heart saw a just cause and a place they could do some good with whatever meager contributions they could muster. Good on them.
That is the ultimate irony of those who are against the Iraq operation while at the same time lauding international law and multi lateral action. This is EXACTLY what Iraq was, a broad based coalition of willing participants from across the globe and from ever strata of economic and military power, participating in a framework within which they are nominal equals in a political sense. Yet in the next breath you get "LOL ICELAND!!! TONGA, WTH!!!"
Now, I can understand if you think the Romania/Albania/Honduras/Georgias of the world were brow beat or coerced into supporting the invaion, thats just diplomacy. I think its unattested in most cases and does the good work the soldiers of those countries accomplished a disservice as well, but I can take the real politic tact as well as anyone else.
However, at the same time what was the US using to coerse the Netherlands/Norway/Japan/Singapore/New Zealand/Denmark into action with. These are all rich secure nations with no real need to placate the US to any such degree. They are not exactly known for their free and loose use of their military assets either. We can agree to disagree on the handwaving of the participation of the other smaller nations, but these guys?
they wanted a long long list of supporters for their position and they got what they wanted
The US would have gone in alone. The legitimacy of having a multilateral occupation was not for the benefit of the US. It was for the benefit of the international community itself, which once on board by and large turned against the US regardless of them embracing their multilateral approach and still fails to recognize the failings of that approach.