Last week we taught my 6yo niece D&D while camping. She played a human wizard noble (princess) who wants to ride dragons. They had to get out of a hairy situation and she used the cantrip whisper to make ghost noises at the guards. She acted out the ghost noises and then so thoroughly spooked herself that she had to play out the rest of the game in my lap
If the DM had already tried to talk to your cousin about it without effect and his playstyle was spoiling the game for the other players then it probably was the right decision.
Its all a low key mess. It’s too bad, it was going so well. There’s two parties in a shared world that affect each other. The DM is my older brother. In my party are two of our cousins (brothers), me, and 3 of my brothers friends. We were going to meet with the other party, my little brother and his friends, with a small army and a peasant mob, to confront the bad guys and his army. I have one game left before coding school so I decided we should go all out to liberate the town and the party is down.
Then we have a very good convo with my cousin who for the first time sees our point of view as no one really talked to him, plus he’s been getting better on his own adapting to the group. But none of the emotion was releasing in my older brother who is working hard to build this ultimate my party campaign with custom rules (the custom rule changes causing the friction with our power gaming cousin). So even though it was getting less frequent the bad vibe, the feeling was still mounting in my bro.
My brother was coming down with a virus and kicked out our cousin and now he’s sick. Our other cousin quit in solidarity. There’s no outward drama everyone is chill about it but I know deeper it’s bad. My little brother is now sad when we meet up our cousins won’t be in the party, and is ofc more upset by the unnecessary family stuff created.
The icing is that we are going to be a combined party of
Level 5 wizard
Level 5 paladin
Level 5 light cleric
Level 5 ranger
Level 4 rogue
Level 4 different rogue
ANd four level 2s in the other party (they are slower)
And for the big final fight we just lost the paladin and light cleric.
But because the timing takes away this shared experience I’ve been having with my cousins, even though it’s the ultimate campaign with my bros and some of their friends still, my last day and I get to blow it away or die trying, I’ve lost enthusiasm.