I'm not with much time now, but I wanted to bring some light to this discussion:
- Pre-Info: Joseph posted about people still not using the SVN log to check their turns. Then Magnus replied that we agreed on the method of checking it here, and not in the SVN log. Nothing prior to these, and the rest will come below;
- 1st: It doesn't seem to me Magnus attacked anyone in his 1st response to Joseph. He did use caps only once, it could be a highlight, but the way he brought the subject was without the possibility of questioning, so I understand one could feel attacked;
- 2nd: Magnus recalled we agreed on using the posts here, and only these, to check whoever's turn it is. I don't recall this. I did a quick search through the initial pages of the Conservative Game and found nothing with 'post' that led to an agreement on this. It'd be nice if you could bring the proof of this agreement here. Maybe if this was agreed on either in the times of the Massive MP or the Another MP, I probably wasn't here yet. Or maybe it skipped my attention when I quickly searched the first pages of the Conservative Thread;
- 3rd: Joseph attacked back, that's undeniable, especially by having felt attacked (to which Joseph admitted later). But even though SVN can be an easier way to check, an agreement is an agreement, it doesn't matter if there's a better way. Instead, Joseph should propose we change the official method (if it has indeed been agreed by us), or propose for multiple agreed on methods for more reliability.
From now on things get a bit more personal and have no important implications to the game itself or how we communicate.
- Joseph went full rage mode, I'd advise against this. If you (Joseph) think he is wrong and also less capable then you to see the truth, there's no need to compromise your health because of that. I always think like that because getting angry really makes my health worse;
- Magnus mentions me without saying my name as the one who lags. I know I'm lagging these games, and I'm aware everyone knows this. This semester on college is being the worse I've ever passed through, a fact which i already shared with you all. And my time will be low from now on until at least July, when i'll have winter break, but even then it might not get back to what it was in the past. But my intention here is to make it clear that you can name me whenever you're talking the truth about me, or is giving an opinion with a serious explanation. I won't feel attacked, nor I'll freak out.
- Magnus getting into logic details about Joseph's "And it's been proven that players don't even check the posts above their own" is useless. He didn't say all, he didn't say some. This will lead to nowhere.
- Joseph states that considering the SVN is easier as just an opinion is untrue and he explains the steps of such method. Despite being a good attempt, it would be better if it was put side by side with the other method, but me getting deeper into this will be irrelevant to me and to all of us.
To finish this, if you keep discussing like that not only you'll get nowhere, but also both of you will become even more stressed. Propose things, ask for confirmation of facts, ask others for opinions and more confirmations and this will lead us to something. But interpreting each other the worst way possible, and using this as justification to lower the level of the arguments won't do us any good.