I played up to t173, but I guess I should write my progress up to around t100 to avoid spoilers.
Settled on spot, as didn't know the map type and gem tile looked good. Planned on buying cow tile asap and did. bought banana tile later when I got gold ruin.
cap: Stele - worker - switched to granary (with banana tile, I thought I would need granary asap) - finish worker - scout - warrior/work boat (waiting for writing) - GL (t61) - NC - HG. Bought water mill while building HG.
Got tribute from genoa at t25, and this was really helpful - bought trireme right away and started exploring - meeting cs and get more tributes. Bought one more with golds from cs (30 meeting gold and 65-75 tributes from each cs - could get tributes with more than half chance) and scouted. t34, got worker from genoa. Genoa really helped a lot in the early game

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Bought settler and built 2nd city around t41, right next to wine and mountain. Settled on cotton-spice island around t55. There was a barb camp and 3 barbs there, so I had to send 2 warriors there to protect my settler. Stole a worker from siam and one from byz. I did several practice game with the same setup and decided that RAs are not really worth it - if I am not going to sign RAs, I can attack them from the beginning and get worker/gold from the peace treaty that they offer.
Found +10 gold island later (actually, another cotton island) and settled 4th and last city. Did barb mission for zanzibar around t75 and that was really helpful for happiness. Did one barb mission for culture cs too.
Found religion at t71 (god of the sea, tithe, religious com). beelined to edu and reached there at t99. Was thinking about going for astro, but wanted rationalism asap so went acoustics. Had to open commerce after completing tradition. Opened rationalism with oracle at t108. One of the best starts and I guess bullying cs was a great idea.