...How do you folks who claim not to drink at all underage celebrate anything without just a smidgen of alcohol?
1. Is there no drink at family gatherings?
2. Is there no celebration after exams/graduation?
3. No drink at friend's birthdays?
Hell I mean when I were all legally kids (instead of just mentally as today - we range from 21 - 16 nowadays) we'd all have at least a glass of wine every family occasion... you know, christmas, new year, joint holidays.... you know... whenever everyone was there...?
1. Nope, none. Not even amongst the adults. Occasionally my grandpa or uncle will have a drink at a bar or playing billiards, but never will anyone have any at family gatherings. Might as well have some lemonade.
2. There is celebration after exams/graduation all right! Just not with drinking. You can have some mighty fun parties without drinking, and you remember them the next day, too. Or the next week. Some parts of the parties you remember months later - really good ones even years later. The weekly Friday parties I had last semester of last year, all without alcohol, were all tremendous fun and on the whole were one of the best times of my life.
The parties include anywhere from 4-18 good friends, usually 6-12, and games such as Halo, Risk, poker, bowling, or basketball. Once in a while something unusual was thrown in the mix. Quite often there was pizza or subs involved.
There was never any pressure to drink, either - one of the things I really like about my group of friends is they all share the non-drinking philosophy.
3. Nope - I suppose the last paragraph kind of gave that away. Birthday parties were on the whole similar to other parties, only often with slightly larger groups of friends. One of my friends tried some champagne at his family celebration of his 18th birthday (he didn't like it), but other than that I can't think of any of my friends ever drinking any alcohol, birthday or not.
So as you could've probably guessed I find drinking unnecessary and pointless, and voted underage and probably never will drink. In terms of social philosophy I'm a prohibitionist, unfortunately history has shown prohibition to be rather hard to implement, even in times of more widespread public support.