Whats the fastest way to get sex starting from no where?

[cgannon64]

Pft, you might as well skip the middleman and inject yourself with a mixture of Super AIDS, syphilis and all the alphabets of hepatitus if you want to go through craigslist.

If you're asking about how fast you can get sex, you must know you're also asking how fast you can get an STD.

 

[Neonanocyborgasm]

I guess either i am really desperate or its just depressing how all my trying to get into a relationship with girls never goes anywhere.

But lets say you dont have a girl friend. What would be the fastest way to get sex from that point?

Where would you go?

What would you say?

And lets assume im a normal looking or above average looking guy.

I'm amazed the thread's not closed already.

Here's my take on these matters:

The only thing that women (universally) find appealing in men is confidence. Other things that may factor in are wealth, good looks, and charm, but they are regarded by women as bonuses. If you do not approach a woman with confidence, you are unlikely to accomplish anything with her. Your approach should be something like the following:

1) Approach a woman you like and try to gain her attention. Most people do this by chatting, but feel free to do whatever works for you.

2) Try to get the woman into a situation where you two will be alone, and free of distraction from outside influences. Traditionally, this has been accomplished with dates, but this is not absolutely necessary. It can be something as simple as a walk down the street. Anything to separate her from the rest of the world and concentrate on you.

3) While you're doing all this, try to get a sense of her interest in you. Women will usually make gestures that imply interest or lack thereof. For example, if she makes ridiculous excuses to avoid you, she's not interested. Conversely, if she pays a lot of attention to you, she's interested. It is not always easy to gage this in the beginning, because you have to test what she will do in response to invitations. (One rule of thumb is that if you don't get any sense that a woman is interested in you in the first 10-15 minutes of a date, she never will be.)

4) If you find her interested, make your move. This is usually a kiss. I would not go further than this in the beginning because most women will avoid early sex, not because they don't want to, but because they are terrified of being thought a slut. Advance further at later events.

Remember, the whole time, you must demonstrate supreme confidence. You must act (if not believe) that you are a fabulous guy and that she would be stupid not to fall for you, and that even if she refused you, you are not dejected because there are 100 women lined up behind her.

There are, of course, some pearls involved but this should be adequate for you. Hope things work out. One thing you should remember is that rejection happens far more than acceptance, so if you find yourself failing often, assume it to be normal and not because of you. Remember, as long as you act with confidence in the presence of a woman, and she still rejects you, you can take comfort in the notion that there is absolutely nothing else you could've done to improve that situation.

 

[Eukaryote]

What is this a really surprising thread topic? Ive seen loads of crap worse then this. Dont even get me started!

Yeah, don't get him started or he'll pick on the crazy conversations I make.

 

[Eukaryote]

most women will avoid early sex, not because they don't want to, but because they are terrified of being thought a slut.

I know, theres a horrible men are studs and women are sluts that I hate. If it were up to me the law would say "If you call a women a slut, a pro wrestlers gotta sock you in the nose."

The newspaper told me that when women stoke their necks and upper chests it means they have a sexual intrest in you. Weird but true, I think.

 

[sysyphus]

The newspaper told me that when women stoke their necks and upper chests it means they have a sexual intrest in you. Weird but true, I think.

Pretty much true. Other body language signs include playing with their hair and frequently, but lightly, touching your arm or hand.

Whereas when a man is aroused by a woman he just stares at her rack. We're not quite as civilised as the ladies are.

 

[ainwood]

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