Why young women cheat more often than men?

[Azkonus]

Ok here are the points, do you agree or disagree with them?

-Girls become mature much earlier than boys. 20 year old girl attracts nearly all man aged from 18 to 70 while 20 year old man can only be attractive to 18-19 year old girls.

-Girls think about relationships all the time. When they don’t talk about men they talk about shopping or buying stuff which is also related to being attractive to guys while man thinks about nearly every other thing like cars, sports, video games etc…



Now think about it 20 year old boy and 20 year old girl.


Boy does not have any money, don’t have an awesome body, and don’t have enough experience and all he thinks about drinking cheap beer and playing video games…etc
On the other hand, 30 year old man who has an eye on his girlfriend has an expensive sports car, lots of money, experience…


So is it normal for young ladies to cheat with older man (~30) what do you think?


If you were a girl would you cheat a lot? If your answer is yes, why you get so angry when you find out your girlfriend cheated on you?

 

[GenMarshall]

Mainly because one man cant please the girl, so if they are not getting anything, they run off and cheat behind their husbands/Boyfreind's back! *sigh* Adultery is realy wrong when one person gets hurt .

 

[pboily]

Colour me unconvinced, but I have a hard time believing that young women cheat significantly more on their lovers than young men do.

 

[Gilder]

Perhaps some statistics are in order?

-Girls become mature much earlier than boys. 20 year old girl attracts nearly all man aged from 18 to 70 while 20 year old man can only be attractive to 18

Not entirely true. Older women sometimes go after the younger men.

 

[Spartan117]

Perhaps some statistics are in order?



Not entirely true. Older women sometimes go after the younger men.

what he said

 

[Pasi Nurminen]

I submit that while women might physically mature slightly faster than men (by which I mean they enter into puberty slightly earlier, something completely irrelevant when talking about 18-24 year old women), most women mentally mature just as slowly as most men do. Personal experience backs up such a submission.

Anyways, the OP clearly doesn't know much about women. He basically assumes that if a rich older man flashes a roll of hundreds in a young, attached woman's face, she'll forget all about her poor young boyfriend and go have sex with the rich, older man. That someone would honestly believe this is not less than repugnant. I'm sure a minority of women are like this, but most are aware of the twin concepts of dignity and self respect and don't succumb to such behaviour.

 

[Azkonus]

Perhaps some statistics are in order?



Not entirely true. Older women sometimes go after the younger men.

Well, I only know Demi Moore as an example but she already had got married and divorced before she chased Ashton.
And she is an extreme example who stay attractive at old ages. Many woman just by fear of getting old, thinks that they should act quickly and live much faster life than man.

And know think other case 30-35 year old man and 20-25 year old woman. There are so many examples I can't even cite here.

 

[Shaihulud]

I don't think that it is possible for a woman young or old to cheat more often than a young man. A young man would just as soon cheat when looking at a pretty girl without furthur consideration. My opinion is that young girls are very susceptible to the money and experience of an older man.

 

[warpus]

Women do not cheat more often than men.

 

[Red Stranger]

I think it makes sense that women cheat more often than men. They just don't put as much emphasis on sex as men do. If you ask a woman, what is worse "an emotional affair or a physical affair?" almost 100% of the women will say "emotional affair." It is exactly the opposite if you ask a man. For that reason, if a woman sleeps around, she believes it only a physical thing, not an emotional thing, so it's not that bad.

 

[GenMarshall]

Women do not cheat more often than men.

Realy, I was under the impression that it was the other way around. .

 

[ybbor]

it takes two to Tango. For every girl that is cheating, there's a guy she's cheating with. Players and sluts balance out.

 

[Red Stranger]

it takes two to Tango. For every girl that is cheating, there's a guy she's cheating with. Players and sluts balance out.

Not true. If a guy in a relationship cheats on his girlfriend with a single gal. The girl isn't cheating, but he is. And visa versa.

 

[Azkonus]

Women do not cheat more often than men.

Well I am 26 yrs old. I had been cheated on twice and never cheated.

I asked my friends they say they caught their girlfriends before. (they are around ~25)


To be more specific on cheatings here, we (me and my friends) all were in the process of breaking up with them and they find this new guy and say it is over now.

I have never seen a guy found a new girl and slept with her and told his current girlfriend that relationship is over now.

What i think this process will be reversed when we reach 30s (though I would never cheat)

 

[Azkonus]

it takes two to Tango. For every girl that is cheating, there's a guy she's cheating with. Players and sluts balance out.

Not necessarily, Here is your scenario: quarterback of football team sleeps with 10 girls, and some other handsome dude with 6 (let's say this group includes 2 members from QBs girls).

So in a class of 20-20

14 girls and only 2 man are active.

 

[Neonanocyborgasm]

Ok here are the points, do you agree or disagree with them?

-Girls become mature much earlier than boys. 20 year old girl attracts nearly all man aged from 18 to 70 while 20 year old man can only be attractive to 18-19 year old girls.

-Girls think about relationships all the time. When they don’t talk about men they talk about shopping or buying stuff which is also related to being attractive to guys while man thinks about nearly every other thing like cars, sports, video games etc…



Now think about it 20 year old boy and 20 year old girl.


Boy does not have any money, don’t have an awesome body, and don’t have enough experience and all he thinks about drinking cheap beer and playing video games…etc
On the other hand, 30 year old man who has an eye on his girlfriend has an expensive sports car, lots of money, experience…


So is it normal for young ladies to cheat with older man (~30) what do you think?

I don't know that women cheat more than men. I'd guess it's about equal.

Most of your points aren't true. Girls only mature sexually sooner than boys, but this has no bearing on emotional maturity. In my experience, girls don't become emotionally mature until they're 30. It's at that point that they start realizing that all their cattiness and coyness has never actually done them any good, and they start becoming realistic about their goals. Boys start becoming emotionally mature around the time they start getting their first "real" job. It's also not true that a young man is only attractive to women of his own age. In fact, older women are sexually fascinated by younger men.

Yes, girls talk about us all the time, but it's just talk. They don't necessarily know what they're talking about. It's more a matter of fascination than of examination. That's why they're constantly trying to look sexually appealing. They are fascinated by men and constantly vye for our attention, even when they claim they are disinterested.

It's not so much that girls cheat with older men, it's just that women like older men. Older men are usually more secure both in themselves and in their livelihood. Women are attracted to that sense of security because they instinctively long for such protection from a man. However, once you get into older ages, it evens out. By the time most people are 30, they have their lives established, so a man of 32 is not significantly more or less attractive than 36.

 

[Syterion]

Who cares if they cheat? If you weren't in a very serious relationship or engaged or married, it doesn't matter. It's her choice to make in that situation, and she shouldn't have to justify herself to change her mind on who she prefers if the two of you aren't "in love" (even though you might be in love and she is not). Same goes for males as well.

 

[Grisu]

Colour me unconvinced, but I have a hard time believing that young women cheat significantly more on their lovers than young men do.

Indeed the whole OP is basically a huge stereotype-o-rama

On the other hand, 30 year old man who has an eye on his girlfriend has an expensive sports car, lots of money, experience…

hey, I'm almost 30 and I don't have any of these things where did I go wrong

seriously now, I don't believe that girls of any age cheat more than their male counterpart, I'd say it's pretty even. Each sex has its fair share of, umm, really cool people

 

[ComradeDavo]

Guys cheat just as much as girls.

 

[AceChilla]

I dont know if woman cheat more then man, but you can safely say that cheating among woman is new kind of trend, just read Cosmopolitan or watch sex in the city as examples. Cheating and sleeping around alot now seems a cool thing among young woman and MILFS.