If it's happening all around you because of things which are in abundance in your society, there's a good chance it will happen to you as well.
Not sure what you're getting at here. Ethnic nationalism didn't become relevant for the Ottomans until at least the very late 18th century. I'm sure neither Bayezid Yilderim nor Suleiman Kanuni saw that coming.
Too bad nationalism hadn't come earlier, perhaps they'd have beaten it out of each other sooner and with lower overall casualties as well, instead of having to go through 2 hyper-devastating world wars to get to realize that it sucks.
That's what I meant. I kinda treat nationalist and religious conflict as a broad group; both are essentially identity conflicts, just that the labels are different.
The problem is that I am talking about what would most probably have happened (broadly speaking), while you're presenting your view of history as a sort of counter-argument.
Except, history is so full of contingencies and the like that you cannot talk of a historical destiny.
Modern ideas about how people should live with each other are just that - modern ideas. If you approached 14th, 15th or 16th century people with them, they would think you mad, likely kill you in some horrible way, and then go on merrily massacring each other as their contemporary mindsets compelled them to. Different religion? Die. Or be my slave. Or pay tribute. Or hide so that I don't see your filthy face around.
Respect is not a modern idea. Tolerance is not a modern idea. Peace is not a modern wish. Granted, I'd rather not live in the 16th century, and I'm glad that the ideas of peaceful coexistance and tolerance has spread so much in modern times, but if you can't see how absurd it is to characterise the entire premodern history of the species as one long orgy of violence, I can't help you.
Are you kidding?
No.
As for the attempt to create a political nation of the inhabitants of the empire... "Oh, we're sorry we've oppressed you for the past 500 years. We're sorry, okay? Now, let's all call ourselves X and have the same rights, and all will be fine forever, promise!"
Actually, many Christians were against Ottomanism; it eroded their autonomy and privileges, especially if you're a church leader. So, yeah, goes back to what I said many times on these boards about complex identities.
[...]not that much of a difference. The notability of the Yugoslavian Breakup skews the perception here.
Indeed.
Well, the Ottoman elites also oppressed the Muslim peoples as well. Though I do think that by the time Ottomanist ideology took hold, ethnic nationalism was entrenched enough in Europe to make its success unlikely.
This is probably true.
Where the Hamidian massacres part of this civic nationalism
apart from this it is far to easy to say the young turks in an attempt to absolve the Ottoman empire
Who's absolving anyone?
Traitorfish was quite right in pointing out that the 1915 Genocide was the work of the Young Turks. The Hamidian pogroms were committed under the direction of Abdulhamid II; not that he represented the Ottomanist thinkers that were dominant in the mid-19th century, either. Abdulhamid peddled a kind of pan-Islamist absolutism, where the basis for unity was not a common citizenship but personal loyalty to the Sultan. He came to be hated by almost everybody and overthrown in a coalition that included both Young Turks and Armenian Revolutionaries in an alliance.
Also, good post by Virote.